This episode explores everything related to touch and physical contact for when you are on a date. What signs should you look for before you reach for their hand? When should you make the first move and what do different forms of touch imply? And how exactly does one escalate that physical contact into something more sexual? We cover all these aspects and more, using consent as our guide for making sure your first moments are positive and memorable for all the right reasons!

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Ethical Seduction - Authentic approaches to flirting and connecting.

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In this episode we cover multiple things you can do to help attract other people so they approach you, so you become more approachable! Before you start any conversations, we want those around you to notice who you are, to feel a sense of curiosity, and to want to get to know you better! This way you can have options, opportunities and choices for attracting the people you find interesting. Making yourself more approachable is not as hard as most people think and these flirting tips will help you get noticed!

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Eva and Brandie take over this episode and lead us on a journey of sexy play ideas! They cover 26 easy and fun ways you can be a more interesting, playful lover in bed, AND be set up up for making real intimate connections. Because flirting and seduction are not just about getting into the bedroom, but also about being good, fun, and exploratory when your pants are off!

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In this episode we cover three big flirting mistakes that everyone should avoid, yet somehow these are super common and tend to plague and cripple people constantly. Accidentally misrepresenting yourself, being perceived as creepy, or getting excited and trying to make things happen too quickly can all cause you to get shut down before you’ve even had a chance to present yourself. So we explain what’s going on with each of these, what to avoid, and the positive flip side that serves as your guide for what to DO when flirting!

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This episode tackles the question of what should come first, Sex or Romance? Many people have opinions on how chemistry, or sexual attraction, should fit in with compatibility, but is there a real answer to how you should do this? We think so but it also depends on what exactly you are after and it’s going to differ from person to person. Eva leads our discussion to help you figure out what is best for your in your person situation: Chemistry (sexual attraction) or Compatibility (romantic attraction).

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Everyone wants to please their partners sexually and knowing how to give good head is a must! Blow jobs, cunnilingus, and rimming (yes rimming!) all have some things you need to learn if you are going to do these well to arouse your partner! Plus many people have questions about what is sanitary or what one may be expected to do when giving head. (“Do you spit or swallow?”)

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References:

We review the book called “The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want” by Author Jeffrey Hall. The author has created labels and a framework for better understanding flirting styles, which is bound to help listeners better understand themselves and those they interact with. However the podcasters also question the accuracy and hetronormitized assumptions presented in the book. While the five flirting styles presented are worth learning, so is the discussion based around the book's findings.

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References:

Book: The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want

Author: Jeffrey A. Hall

Amazon Link: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Flirting-Styles-Science-Attract/dp/037389273X

Article: 5 Flirting Styles: What Type of Flirt are You?

Author: WebMD, Katrina Woznicki

Link: https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20101101/5-flirting-styles-what-type-of-flirt-are-you

Those in the sex work business see and learn things about sex, seduction, human nature, and intimacy that many of us outside the adult business are not privy to see. So we asked our friend Ivy Minxxx, who is thriving in the adult industry and does wide variety of “sex work”, to share her thoughts and sexy experience to help us with our own flirting, seduction, relationships, and sex lives.

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Ivy Minxxx Links:

Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/ivyminxxx

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ivy.minx/

Discord: https://discord.com/invite/MGnUuCGYsT

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Only Fans: https://twitter.com/ivyminxxx

Chaturbate: www.Chaturbate.com/ivyminxxx

Everyone has certain needs and so there is definitely a positive and healthy place for getting our needs met. The flip side can be when someone comes along and asks you to give more of yourself than you really want - which doesn’t feel good at all. So where is the balance and how can we get our own needs met without accidentally dumping too much on those around us? In this episode we will discuss neediness, what’s okay and what is not, but we will also take a deep dive into things you do right now to take some pressure off yourself, to not come across as being needy or clingy, and at the same time become attractive to where people are coming to you!

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References: WikiHow: How to stop being Needy: 14 Steps https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Needy

We explore some best practices for Masturbation and Self Love. We talk about the health benefits, ways to become more comfortable with masturbating, and we suggest new things for you to try! Set time aside, experiment with touch and sensation, practice new techniques and try one of the toys we suggest. Fantasize, edge, tease, and get yourself off! Masturbation is good for your body, your mind, your health, and it feels great too!

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References: Lindsay Tigar’s article in Ask Men titled “How Women Feel About Male Masturbation” https://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa_60/89_love_secrets.html