Jealousy can be a strange and complicated feeling in the lifestyle. It can rear its ugly head unexpectedly, even with couples who don't usually experience issues with jealousy. We have heard many tales of jealousy from other couples in the last three years. There has only been one time that I have experienced true jealousy in the lifestyle. This episode is the story of that experience.

Episode 24: One of the hardest things about the lifestyle is finding a 4-way connection with another couple. The process can be interesting...and at times infuriating. In this episode I'll talk about some of the recent interactions we have had: both interesting and infuriating.

Production Note: As many of my listeners know, I am a teacher. School is starting back up for me this week. Therefore, I think it will be easier for me to start publishing episodes on weekends going forward. Still sticking with the bi-weekly format, but will now publish every other weekend.

What happens when 3 of the 4 people on a playdate are super shy and uncomfortable? I'll tell you all about it.

Eva joins me in the episode to discuss her sexual orientation. We have had trouble finding a term that accurately describes it. Then, we share a hotel takeover story about how she was cock blocked...quite literally.

What is the fizzle? In this episode I will explain as well as discuss how I answered a question someone asked me regarding jealousy.

If you were having trouble listening to this week's episode due to the low volume, please try this alternate version. I have increased the volume a bit. Hope that helped! Still a novice with podcasting audio tech!

Episode description:

Episode 19: The lifestyle can be cyclical. Eva and I have experienced times when we had lots of interest and options for potential dates...and other times (like now) where we are not able to find couples we match with. There are highs and lows. In this episode I talk about why it is sometimes so tough to find new potential matches.

Cue the Etta James music. After 3 years in the lifestyle, Evan finally fulfills his two biggest fantasies.

Eva and I would love to meet more local lifestyle couples. A few just haven't worked out. In this episode I talk about an interesting experience we had with a local couple. Before that story, I touch again on my desire to tell some vanilla friends about our involvement in the lifestyle...and also the perils of doing so.

In this episode I share a quick story from my college days which prove I never lived life to the fullest. I then discuss an experience involving an insult that ended a friendship we had with a lifestyle couple.

*Note: Eva does NOT have a gigantic ass. Listen to this episode and you'll understand what I mean by that.