“Fast on gossip!”
My husband I taught our children to “fast on gossip!”
We taught our children that when people gossip, it is because the person gossiping does not feel good about their own self. This explanation really hit home with me!
Growing up, our children felt free to discuss their feelings with us, as parents, rather than gossiping to other people. Our children also learning that people may choose to be unkind to you for no reason whatsoever.
People do not usually bring my daughter, Billie, gossip because they knew that she has zero interest in it. It is no fun to bring gossip to someone that will not participate.
Regardless of your opinion about or toward someone else, it is not our place to judge or gossip about others.
If someone truly Loves, respects and cares about you, they will squash gossip, the very moment it comes to them.
Gossip is toxic, destroys lives, and is something that we taught our children to fast on since their childhood. It destroys families, and all types of relationships.
If someone brings you gossip then they automatically disrespect you. Tell them to learn how to raise their gossip bar.
Your life is only as good as the people you allow in it. It is always your choice to forbid gossip or not.
Our entire team at work with my daughter, has a zero-gossip policy in our workplace. If you gossip, you lose your job. Kindness and dedication is our work style.
Gossip is wrong. The bible plainly identifies gossiping as sinful. Here are some scriptures that come to my mind about gossip:
Proverbs11:12-13,16:28,20:19, 26:20,10:19, 18:6- 7, 21:23,17:9,
25:9-10, 6:16-19, 10:18
Psalms 34:13, 141:3, 101:5, 50:20, 41:5
Ephesians 4:29 Titus 3:2
Exodus 23:1, 20:16 James 4:11, 1:26
1 Timothy 5:13 Leviticus 19:16 John 7:12-13 Romans 1:29-32 5-28-15
Pray for people that gossip, and those that rely on gossip for their information.
Are you learning to fast on gossip?
Ephesians 4:29
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Evelyn Minton and her daughter, Dr. Billie J. Minton are the authors of the Blue Ridge Tenderpup children's series. These books may be found at the author's website BlueRidgeMoments.com and Amazon.com/Author/drbillieminton