🎙️ Get ready to spill the tea and share some laughter in this episode as we dive into the hilarious and relatable world of being the eldest daughter in a working-class black household. I am here to break down the expectations, debunk the myths, and serve up some serious real talk!🏠 First on the list: why THE Eldest Daughter is NOT your substitute house help. From dodging dirty dishes to mastering the art of selective hearing when the vacuum comes out, we've got the scoop on how to navigate the fine line between being helpful and being taken advantage of.👀 Next, let's address the elephant in the room – eldest daughters are NOT scapegoats! We're breaking free from the blame game and discussing how to shut down those eye rolls and finger-pointing sessions. Spoiler alert: it involves some seriously sassy comebacks!🚫 And can we talk about the myth that eldest children owe it to you to "struggle with you"? Time to put an end to the romanticizing of unplanned kids and embrace the notion that every eldest daughter secretly wishes they had an older sibling to hold THEIR hand through the chaos.🤣 Join me for some laughs, a dash of wisdom, and a whole lot of sisterhood solidarity as we navigate the unique challenges of being the firstborn in a working-class black household. It's time to flip the script and rewrite the rules on what it means to be the eldest daughter – one hilarious anecdote at a time! Tune in and get ready to say, "Yup, that's SO me!" 🎉 #EldestDaughterRealTalk