Oran talks about his teen years, growing up as many (or all?) of us do, not really loving the way he looked and not feeling like he fit in. Upon starting Irish dancing, gender norms were prevalent and he felt pressure to “be masculine” in his dancing. He talks about his experience in competitive dance - the pressure, criticism, and often unhealthy relationships with food that surrounded him. Oran tells us about getting into contemporary dance, and how it’s allowed him to be vulnerable and focus on the way his body feels. He also describes his experience with aerial dance and how it came into his life at the perfect time.
We chat about toxic masculinity, gender as a spectrum, social media, and the issues that can come with caring deeply about image. Oran explains why he intentionally posts about all aspects of his life, especially the mundane, real parts. He talks about how far he’s come with accepting, letting go, and being comfortable with himself. Oran tells us about how challenging it can be to get respect as a dancer and how lockdown helped him slow down. Finally, he talks about injuries, not pushing through the pain, and being grateful for good health.
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