Everything that happens in life is a question of our perception of it, and each one of us has a different vantage point from which we look at an event. That is why two people having the same experience, or looking at the same event, can have a totally different description of it, and feeling about it. If we started using different language about what is happening, we could also start shifting our perception and feelings about it; that would inevitably mean having a higher frequency, which in turn leads to having access to a higher set of choices to make. Then choosing the highest one would be the first step towards a solution of the problem we have now called an adventure!