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Ever felt stuck in survival mode — chasing opportunities, saying yes out of fear, or moving fast just to keep up?

In this transformative episode of Everybody Can’t Go Convos, Stephanie J. Holley breaks down the 3-phase mindset shift that changes everything:
➡️ Desperation
➡️ Hesitation
➡️ Determination

You’ll discover how desperation clouds your clarity, why hesitation isn’t weakness but wisdom, and how to activate disciplined determination that aligns with your purpose — not your pressure.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How desperation leads to burnout and misaligned decisions
The role of hesitation in slowing down to reset your vision
Why determination is about clarity, not chaos
Tools to recognize what phase you're in — and how to grow through it
Practical mindset shifts to stop reacting and start responding
Whether you're navigating life, business, or big transitions, this episode will help you realign your decisions with your values and take back control of your emotional momentum.

🧠 This episode is for you if:

- You’re tired of feeling like you’re always behind or running out of time
- You struggle with people-pleasing or overcommitting
- You know you’re meant for more, but you keep second-guessing yourself
- You're ready to move from chaos to confidence in your next season

🎧 Tune in + share it with someone who needs a mindset reset.
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Do your emotions sometimes get in the way of how you communicate or make decisions?

In this thought-provoking episode, Jessi Holley dives deep into the powerful connection between emotional awareness, intentional communication, and decision-making. Whether you’re leading a team, navigating a relationship, or making a big life move, how you communicate matters — and so does the emotional lens you're looking through.

🔥 You’ll learn:
✅ Why pausing before reacting can change everything
✅ How emotional maturity impacts leadership and outcomes
✅ The importance of using tools like the emotion wheel
✅ How to create space between your feelings and your choices
✅ Ways to improve clarity, connection, and confidence when you speak

This is more than a conversation — it’s a masterclass in emotional intelligence and strategic communication for anyone who wants to grow personally or professionally.

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💬 Watch if you’ve ever asked:
Why do I say things I regret in the heat of the moment?
How do I lead with more emotional control?
Can I improve how I communicate under pressure?
What tools help with emotional regulation and clarity?

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In this thought-provoking episode, Jessi Holley explores the power of mindset in shaping purpose, clarity, and personal growth. She breaks down how a poor mindset leads to distorted perceptions — and how those perceptions can ultimately derail your purpose and productivity.

Jessi highlights the critical link between mindset and execution, sharing why mental elevation is necessary for aligning with your goals, especially when life feels overwhelming or full of distractions. She also introduces the Rewrite the Vision Journal, a powerful tool designed to help you reset, realign, and refocus your energy toward what truly matters.

Whether you’re stuck in a cycle of self-doubt or simply need to reset your vision, this conversation offers practical insights to help you realign your thinking and walk boldly in your purpose.

✅ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why mindset is the foundation of effective decision-making and goal-setting
- How negative thinking blocks your ability to walk in purpose
- The importance of taking regular inventory of your life’s vision
- Tools and strategies for resetting and realigning your goals
- How the Rewrite the Vision Journal can support your personal growth journey

🛠️ Resources Mentioned:
✍️ Rewrite the Vision: Reset & Realign Program – reset.everybodycg.com
💬 Connect with Jessi Holley: @everybodycantgoconvospod

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Are you always the one people turn to — the “strong friend” who has it all together?

But here’s the real question:
When was the last time you let someone check on you?
When you never open up, are you really being a good friend — or just playing a role that hides your own needs?

In this powerful episode of Everybody Can’t Go Convos, Jessi explores the silent struggle of the emotionally strong, the fear behind vulnerability, and the cost of always being the one who “has it handled.”

You’ll learn:
💡 Why emotional strength can become emotional isolation
💡 How to recognize when you’re using helpfulness to avoid your own healing
💡 The difference between being supportive and being unavailable
💡 Signs that it’s time to let your friends in — for real

This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating deep friendships, emotional boundaries, and personal growth. Whether you're a strong friend or love one, this episode will challenge you to redefine what true connection looks like.

🎧 Listen if you’ve ever said:
“I’m fine” when you weren’t.
“I got it” when you didn’t.
“Don’t worry about me” when you were falling apart inside.

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In this heartfelt and deeply honest episode, Žana DeVine sits down with Jessi Holley to explore "The Power of Authenticity" in the journey of healing and self-discovery. Together, they unpack the messy, beautiful process of becoming — from honoring grief and navigating isolation to embracing gratitude and finding strength in vulnerability.

Jessi opens up about her own transformative path and how embracing truth, even when it’s uncomfortable, created space for growth and connection. Žana reflects on the emotional weight of communication — not just what we say, but *how* we say it — and how tone can either bridge or break understanding.

If you’ve ever struggled with showing up as your full self or felt pressure to heal quickly, this conversation offers real, grounded encouragement to give yourself grace and grow at your own pace.

🔑 Key Takeaways:
* Why authenticity isn’t always easy — but it’s always powerful
* The unspoken power of tone in communication
* How isolation can both harm and heal
* The role of gratitude in transformation
* Honoring your feelings *without* staying stuck in them

🧠 Quote of the Episode:
"You can’t fake healing. When you’re ready to face your truth, that’s when real freedom begins." – Jessi Holley*

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Do you ever wonder why some people dream bigger, set bolder goals, or see possibilities you’ve never imagined? 
In this eye-opening episode of Everybody Can’t Go Convos, we break down the powerful role of exposure — to culture, travel, social environments, and socioeconomic experiences — in shaping how you think, what you want, and how you pursue success.

🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
⏩ How cultural and life exposure expands your mindset
⏩ The connection between socioeconomic background and personal ambition
⏩ How to intentionally seek new experiences to reprogram your goals and dreams
⏩ Why you can’t dream what you’ve never seen

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 👉 Where have you traveled or what have you experienced that reshaped your dreams?
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Have you ever said “I’m sorry,” but realized the apology didn’t repair the damage you caused? Or maybe you’ve been on the receiving end—hearing the words, but still carrying the pain. In this powerful episode of Everybody Can’t Go Convos, we’re diving deep into the truth that some apologies aren’t enough—and what real healing and accountability look like when words fall short.

We unpack:
- Why apologies often fail to fully address emotional harm
- The difference between intent and impact
- What it really means to take responsibility for your past actions
- How to begin repairing trust without expecting immediate forgiveness
- When relationships can’t be restored—and how to find peace with that

This episode is for anyone navigating past mistakes, rebuilding relationships, or struggling to forgive where there’s still pain. Whether you’re trying to heal or be healed, this conversation will challenge you to go deeper than just saying “sorry.”

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In this episode, Jessi Holley sits down with Tiffany Tate, the visionary founder of the High Flyer app, a groundbreaking platform designed to revolutionize networking by making it more equitable and accessible for everyone. Tiffany shares the inspiring journey behind creating High Flyer, revealing the challenges she faced, from securing startup funding to breaking into a competitive tech industry dominated by major platforms like LinkedIn.

Listen as Tiffany opens up about the hurdles minority entrepreneurs often face in the startup world, the critical role of community support, and the mental health considerations that come with building a business from the ground up. Jessi and Tiffany also explore the balance between hustle and rest, the importance of effective project management, and the power of staying resilient when the path gets tough.

If you’re an entrepreneur, aspiring founder, or just someone looking to level up their networking game, this episode is packed with insights and practical advice on turning vision into reality.

Key Takeaways:
-How High Flyer is disrupting traditional networking models
-The challenges of securing funding as a minority entrepreneur
-Maintaining momentum in uncertain times
-Balancing hustle with self-care for sustainable success

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In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the quote:
“The only person who is coming to save you, is the version of you that is sick of the current version of you.” This isn’t just a catchy statement—it’s a wake-up call. We explore the moment you realize that no one is coming to rescue you from your patterns, pain, or stagnation. The version of you that you’ve been waiting for? That’s the one who gets tired enough, bold enough, and brave enough to make real change.
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In This Episode, We Cover:

Why radical honesty is the first step to change
How hitting rock bottom can be a powerful turning point
The internal battle between comfort and calling
Practical ways to connect with the next-level version of you
What it really means to become your own rescue

Key Takeaways:

Personal transformation doesn’t begin with motivation—it begins with dissatisfaction.
Waiting to be saved delays your healing and your growth.
Becoming the version of you that takes action is the ultimate self-rescue.
Growth requires grieving who you used to be.

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In Part 2 of this powerful and soul-stirring episode of Everybody Can’t Go Convos, host Jessi Holley continues her transformative conversation with purpose-driven leader and transformation coach Shaudae McMillian. If you’re serious about self-growth, inner healing, and walking boldly into your next level—this is your episode.

Jessi and Shaudae unpack what it really means to break generational cycles, shift your heart posture, and stop repeating emotional patterns rooted in unworthiness. They explore how to reflect on your past without shame and reframe it as a powerful tool for transformation.

Tune in to hear them discuss:

The difference between breaking curses vs. cycles

Inner child healing and emotional maturity

Reprogramming your inner voice and releasing guilt

Letting go vs. pushing people away

Creating aligned connections that support your purpose

Practicing self-discipline and intentional prayer in your healing journey

This episode is for anyone ready to heal forward, lead with clarity, and surround themselves with purpose-aligned people. Hit play, take notes, and remember: Everybody Can’t Go.

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