Today Dr. Beth sits down again with relationship expert Dr. Carol Stoney to explore one of the most common phrases couples use to describe their relationship: “We’re just not compatible.” Instead of couples seeing their differences as signs of failure, they unpack what actually lies beneath that thought—discouragement, unmet connection, and the skills we never learned but desperately need in relationships. Together they dive into:

Why compatibility isn’t about agreeing on everything

What happens when life stress wears down the “insulation” of congratulation

Practical habits that rebuild connection (eye contact, reassurance, warm touch)

How to tell disappointment from rejection

The real math of healthy relationships (positive interactions vs. negative ones)

If you’ve ever wondered whether differences mean you chose the wrong person—or whether love should feel easier—this episode offers a grounded, hopeful reframing and actionable insights for loving through incompatibilities.

Listen, reflect, and grow together.

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