Everyday Strong

As the culture changed during the time frame of the Bible so did the view of Marriage and Adultery.
Master Life Coach Angelia Richardson joins the show today to bring up eye-opening questions that some people may think of privately but won't say publicly.

Dr. Daniels and CB have an eye-opening discussion about what the Bible teaches us about Adultery and Divorce.
Questions Answered/Discussed:
0:00- Intro
0:44- Is it ok to divorce and remarry
5:00- How to Reconcile a Marriage
8:30- What Does Jesus say about Divorce and Why did Moses allow divorce?
10:20- What did Apostle Paul Said about Divorce?
12:28- Are the Marriage Vows a Covenant between Man and Wife?
15:56- How Remarry without the Punishment?
23:00- Can Two Mature People Can Survive Anything in a Marriage?
24:09- How Should We Handle Adultery in a Marriage?
26:00- How Do I Stop Committing Adultery?

Important Questions Dr. Daniels answers concerning adultery:
0:00 Intro
0:40 What is adultery and how is it different from fornication?
2:22 Why doesn’t God consider Biblical figures like Abraham and Jacob as adulterers?
4:44 How does God view adultery?
12:54 Why do people feel it is necessary to go outside their marriage for intimacy and/or sex?
16:50 Does the person have to actually engage in sex for it to be considered adultery?
20:00 How do we Prevent Adultery?

In this funny but informative episode, Dr. Daniels and CB discuss everything from supporting black business to the missing concept of "it takes a village” to raise a child.

Dr. Daniels and CB continue the discussion on what men should should look for in a woman and how to develop a "Ruth" in a marriage.
Questions Answered;
Do men spend enough time understanding their wives?
Does a man deserve sex if he's not supporting his wife?
Can a man turn things around after 15 years of marriage?

We cover the true value of a wife in this episode. Dr. Daniels gives clear guidance on how a man is supposed to treat his wife according to the Bible.

He breaks down the order of importance for a married man;
The Father (God)
The Son (Jesus)
Himself
His Wife
His Children

Please read the scriptures below for further guidance in the word of God.

Genesis 2:18
"And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.”

Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing,
And obtains favor from the Lord.

Proverbs 31:10
"Who[a] can find a [b]virtuous wife?
For her worth is far above rubies."

1 Peter 3:7
"Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered."

In continuation of the Raising Men Series, Dr. Daniels and CB discuss the meaning of the scripture in Proverbs 4 and how to apply it today. Wisdom and Understanding are the key points in this chapter of Proverbs. We take a look at the wisdom King Solomon gives his children and the pronouns selected to describe "understanding" to drive a point home.

Sub- Topics
How does something so simple to follow not get taught as much some of the more worldly ideas?
Is King Solomon's Source of Wisdom, his life experience?

0:00 Intro
2:21 King Solomon Instruction Father to Son
3:35 How To be a Successful Man
6:55 Seek Wisdom like you Seek Your First Love
10:45 Getting Passed Second Door of Faith
13:00 How to Communicate the Words of Wisdom

Proverbs 4

1 Listen, my sons, to a father’s instruction;
pay attention and gain understanding.
2 I give you sound learning,
so do not forsake my teaching.
3 For I too was a son to my father,
still tender, and cherished by my mother.
4 Then he taught me, and he said to me,
“Take hold of my words with all your heart;
keep my commands, and you will live.
5 Get wisdom, get understanding;
do not forget my words or turn away from them.
6 Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you;
love her, and she will watch over you.
7 The beginning of wisdom is this: Get[a] wisdom.
Though it cost all you have,[b] get understanding.
8 Cherish her, and she will exalt you;
embrace her, and she will honor you.
9 She will give you a garland to grace your head
and present you with a glorious crown.”
10 Listen, my son, accept what I say,
and the years of your life will be many.
11 I instruct you in the way of wisdom
and lead you along straight paths.
12 When you walk, your steps will not be hampered;
when you run, you will not stumble.
13 Hold on to instruction, do not let it go;
guard it well, for it is your life.
14 Do not set foot on the path of the wicked
or walk in the way of evildoers.
15 Avoid it, do not travel on it;
turn from it and go on your way.
16 For they cannot rest until they do evil;
they are robbed of sleep till they make someone stumble.
17 They eat the bread of wickedness
and drink the wine of violence.
18 The path of the righteous is like the morning sun,
shining ever brighter till the full light of day.
19 But the way of the wicked is like deep darkness;
they do not know what makes them stumble.
20 My son, pay attention to what I say;
turn your ear to my words.
21 Do not let them out of your sight,
keep them within your heart;
22 for they are life to those who find them
and health to one’s whole body.
23 Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it.
24 Keep your mouth free of perversity;
keep corrupt talk far from your lips.
25 Let your eyes look straight ahead;
fix your gaze directly before you.
26 Give careful thought to the[c] paths for your feet
and be steadfast in all your ways.
27 Do not turn to the right or the left;
keep your foot from evil

This week Dr. Daniels and CB discuss what the Bible says for men to do to keep faitful in marriage.

0:00- Intro
1:04- Nobody wants what nobody else wants
1:44- Why Men don’t teach their Son’s about Adultery
4:50- How to get your wife to flattery you with words
6:25- Be intoxicated with her love
10:49- How to Teach our Children the Wisdom of the Bible 10:49


Proverbs 5
5 My son, pay attention to my wisdom,
turn your ear to my words of insight,
2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.
7 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
do not turn aside from what I say.
8 Keep to a path far from her,
do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you lose your honor to others
and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich the house of another.
11 At the end of your life you will groan,
when your flesh and body are spent.
12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
How my heart spurned correction!
13 I would not obey my teachers
or turn my ear to my instructors.
14 And I was soon in serious trouble
in the assembly of God’s people.”
15 Drink water from your own cistern,
running water from your own well.
16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,
your streams of water in the public squares?
17 Let them be yours alone,
never to be shared with strangers.
18 May your fountain be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19 A loving doe, a graceful deer—
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
20 Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife?
Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman?
21 For your ways are in full view of the Lord,
and he examines all your paths.
22 The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare them;
the cords of their sins hold them fast.
23 For lack of discipline they will die,
led astray by their own great folly.

Dr. Daniels and CB discuss one of the most controversial verses in the Bible, Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Is the reason the scripture is so controversial because we don't read the whole chapter or because we bring our own worldly beliefs into the discussion?

Ephesians 5:21-28
King James Version
21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

Dr. Daniels and CB discuss the advantages and pitfalls of having a culture at work that embraces the freedom of individuality.