We as men go after for what we want in life & we can be very ambitious towards our own fulfillment. But we tend to do the bare minimum in relationships

We as black men need to do better as far as impregnating women who we don't see a future with or having children we don't plan on raising & putting all the responsibilities on the mother..

We as men need to show women that we can show her a soft gentle side of us and learn how to be a better lover.. we need to learn how to put our guard down & open up more..

We as men need to stop blaming women for our problems, some men feel women only chooses a certain types of men & ignores good decent men instead of looking in the mirror at himself & self reflecting on his on insecurities

We as men depend on black women for so much, that we fail to see her pain & suffering. & her daily & internal battles. She has to be the mom , therapist, provider, maintenance worker. but never be in the passager seat & can exhaust from life's journey

Most men think just because a woman is laying next to him she's happy.. but most don't realize that you must continue to date & court her like you did in the beginning plus women love consistency

It's your boy JC exploring the topic of dating up.