Everyone Deserves Sunshine: Girls in the Crease - A Heated Rivalry Podcast

In this episode we talk with Sarah, a physician, mom, and a reproductive rights advocate about how the show found her during one of the hardest periods of her life. After being diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer while pregnant, Sarah faced surgery, chemotherapy, pregnancy loss, and the terrifying uncertainty of her own mortality. Against the backdrop of grief, political upheaval, and the fight for reproductive freedom, Heated Rivalry became an unexpected source of joy, emotional release, and new community. We talk about the strange and beautiful ways fandom connects us, the power of shared feelings, and how Heated Rivalry helps so many of us survive the darkest chapters of our own lives.

In this episode, we sit down with Zach Suico, a competitive fencer, to talk about how Heated Rivalry found him at a moment when he really needed it. As a gay Asian athlete navigating an intensely competitive environment, Zach connected deeply with Shane’s story, but seeing Hudson Williams embraced by audiences for his authentic and unapologetic personality had an equally profound impact. He talks about how representation moved from an abstract concept to something he could feel in his whole body. We also discuss the exhausting belief that we have to earn respect by being exceptional. Zach tells us how Heated Rivalry helped him rediscover his confidence and the desire to pursue interests beyond fencing and nursing.

Find Zach:

IG: zach.suico

Youtube and TikTok: zachsuico

Zach's interview with OutSports

In this episode, we chat with Sydney about having hobbies again, and how Heated Rivalry somehow gave us permission to rediscover parts of ourselves we had left behind. We get into what happens when a show you love starts bleeding into every part of your life, from constantly talking about it to making edits, memes, crafts, fan art, and fan fiction. We also talk about the strange pressure we all put on ourselves to make every interest productive, and why it feels so good to have something that is simply fun.

Find Sydney:

Insta/Threads: @craftysmutstudio

A03: https://archiveofourown.org/works/87701726/chapters/232402511?utm_source=threads&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=ZgZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAcGRvZgRzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAwyNTYyODEwNDA1NTgAQ6jGFwHSiENFUGIBZrwwM5IBOjsYjVltIyOzkFJM03CE6yExU9deMGxhhwUivdrOFA_aem_GJYWk55caF_y34EfZ9KWsQ

In this episode, we sit down with grief doula, death tender, and writer Abby Goelzer to explore grief through the lens of Heated Rivalry and Ilya’s journey. Abby introduces us to Francis Weller’s “Five Gates of Grief” and uses the framework to unpack Ilya’s losses. We discuss how grief isn’t limited to losing a person, but can come from losing an identity, a future we imagined, a version of ourselves, or the life we thought we would have. The conversation also touches on the particular grief many Heated Rivalry fans experience when the show awakens questions about youth, missed possibilities and opportunities, and whether it’s too late to create a different life.

Find Abby:

Threads: @aelepants

IG: @garnet_andthe_moon

substack: https://garnetandthemoon.substack.com/

website: garnetandthemoon.com

essay: https://garnetandthemoon.substack.com/p/did-you-hear-about-rozanov

Abby has a specific offering for folks who want to sort through the grief that came up for them because of Heated Rivalry, which you can find on her website listed above.

In this episode we chat with Blanca, a wedding venue owner, photographer, and self-described “collector of love stories." Blanca shares how the show arrived during a period of empty-nest sadness, political exhaustion, and uncertainty. We discuss parenting, allyship, queer joy, burnout, and the question of what it means to find happiness in difficult times. We explore the idea that joy is not an escape from the world but a way to survive it.

*Unfortunately, by the time this episode airs, Blanca had to cancel the party due to concerns over ICE presence in her area.

In our first Humans of Heated Rivalry episode, we meet Stefanie Kalem, a writer whose love for Heated Rivalry unexpectedly brought her back to creativity. We talk about romance and fantasy and about how Stefanie found a creative home in the HR fandom through fan fiction and podfic. At the heart of our conversation is the power of communication, connection, and giving yourself permission to be joyful, creative, and a little (or a lot) silly at any age.

Find Stefanie:

Threads: @fannybaefiction

Writing: stefaniekalem.com

Substack: https://substack.com/@stefaniekalem

In this episode, we reflect on the unexpected journey of creating a podcast based solely on our love and appreciation for a beautiful tv show.. We share listener feedback, particularly from those who found pieces of themselves reflected in conversations about identity and community, and we talk about the importance of listening and remaining open to growth when we inevitably get things wrong. We discuss our hope to continue creating a space where empathy, curiosity, and connection thrive. A huge thank you to our listeners, guests, and the fandom that embraced us and our thoughts and musings., We hope our podcast has brought the same joy into your lives as much as it brought to us. Thank you. See you in the fall (or maybe mid summer...you just never know)!

In this episode we break down how the intimacy and sex scenes in Heated Rivalry function as emotional narrative structure, and how every intimate encounter between Shane and Ilya changes the relationship in some meaningful way. By the time they reach the cottage scenes, the intimacy has transformed from hidden hookups into something openly tender and emotionally honest, marking a major shift in both characters’ ability to accept themselves and each other. Throughout the discussion, we emphasize that the emotional heartbreaks of the story comes from watching two people struggle against a world that taught them their love was impossible.

In this episode, we finally dive headfirst into hockey. Joined by Jayanthi Daniels, a lifelong New York Rangers fan and queer media enthusiast, we unpack why hockey culture feels uniquely tied to masculinity, repression, identity, and belonging, and why that makes it the perfect setting for a queer romance. We talk about the suffocating pressure embedded into elite sports from childhood, the rigid “archetypes” players are forced into, and how hockey’s obsession with conformity creates the exact conditions that make someone like Shane unable to separate who he is from the game he loves. Jayanthi explains how both Rachel Reid and Jacob Tierney understand hockey not just as a sport but as a deeply Canadian cultural identity, which is why the series feels so authentic even while it critiques the culture from the inside.

In this Mother’s Day episode, we talk about the mothers of Heated Rivalry, and the ways motherhood, emotional labor, and loss shape who we become.

We discuss Ilya's mom and how she exists through absence and how her loss echoes through his relationship with Shane, grief, intimacy, and identity. Then we talk about Yuna Hollander, and her dual presence in Shane's life, both as his mother and his manager.

We talk about the pressure to push children toward success, the fear of getting it wrong anyway, and the invisible work mothers carry behind the scenes while trying to hold an entire family together. We connect the emotional realities of the show to our own experiences as mothers, including the moments we fail, the moments we repair, and the constant fear that we are somehow getting it wrong while loving our children as fiercely as we can.