By Michael and Summer Mulder
The podcast currently has 105 episodes available.
Going through divorce and family troubles is incredibly personal and can be difficult to talk about on a public platform. However, by discussing these issues, we can help others navigate their way through these real-life hardships that so many people have to deal with. So, in this episode, we have Mike’s nephew, Anthony Ellsworth joining the show to share his story of divorce, co-parenting his kids in two different locations, and the struggles with dating as a newly single father.
Listen in as Anthony explains when he started to notice that his marriage was not as strong as it once was and how his mental health was impacted during his divorce. You will learn what Anthony did to ensure his daughter never had negative feelings towards her mom, why you must show up for your children consistently, and his advice for those going through a divorce right now.
5:00 - 7:00 - Anthony’s background and how his upbringing impacted his life.
7:00 - 10:30 - When Anthony realized his marriage was starting to fall apart.
10:30 - 14:05 - How Anthony navigated his way through his divorce.
14:05 - 20:25 - How Anthony made sure that there was nothing bad said about his daughter's mother in front of her.
20:25 - 23:05 - How to cope with the grief of divorce.
23:20 - 28:00 - How Anthony handled co-parenting from two different locations.
28:00 - 34:30 - If Anthony has any regrets from his divorce.
34:30 - 41:00 - The importance of showing up for your children consistently.
41:00 - 44:30 - The benefit of remembering that your life will go through seasons and things will pass.
44:30 - 49:02 - Anthony’s advice for others going through divorce.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“Show up for your kid consistently.” - Anthony Ellsworth
“I made sure that I never gave [anyone] a reason to talk bad about my daughter's mom because I didn’t want my daughter to think badly about her.”- Anthony Ellsworth
“Nobody is perfect.” - Anthony Ellsworth
3 Interesting Clips:
10:30 - 11:15 - How Anthony’s upbringing impacted his adult life.
15:45 - 18:40 - How Anthony’s mental health suffered through his divorce and what he did to work through it.
28:00 - 30:00 - The importance of setting a great example for your children through a healthy, happy relationship with your co-parent.
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How much pain are you experiencing because you feel less than warm and secure in your own home? If you feel like your family life has turned into a battlefield or that being in a blended family is non-stop fighting, this episode is for you. Dr. Patty Ann Tublin joins the show today to share from her wealth of knowledge as a relationship, communication, and emotional intelligence expert.
Listen in as she shares ways for your family to break free from the cycle of screaming and yelling at each other. Her insight into helping your kids to get along better is incredibly valuable, and she provides tools to help you manage your family better. You will walk away with actionable and WORKING ways to make your home a peaceful place again.
0:56 – 7:53 - Who Patty is and her expertise in successful relationships.
7:54 – 13:45 – Where to go when you’re feeling disconnect and tension in your home life.
13:45 – 17:45 - The difference between the romantic relationship and the family relationship working or not working.
17:55 – 29:29 – Setting boundaries and the security that comes with that.
29:30 – 37:24 – How to manage time and feeling like there’s just not enough.
37:25 – 43:15 – The importance of empathy and connection when parenting imperfectly.
43:16 – 49:35 – Patty’s book on entrepreneurship and how she navigated business and children.
49:36 – 101:32 – Finding the right way to do things and communicating well verbally and non-verbally.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“The perfect storm comes whenever it feels like it.” – Dr. Patty Ann Tublin
“Pull yourself out emotionally, and your partner, and tell them you need to have a talk about expectations.” – Dr. Patty Ann Tublin
“The pace of the world is like a squirrel on crack cocaine. We have the responsibility to set our pace, and if we don’t, we’ve abdicated that to someone else.” – Dr. Patty Ann Tublin
3 Interesting Clips:
12:04 - 13:10 – Where to start when you see signs of trouble and how to go into a blended family.
18:35 – 19:01 – What to do when rules and expectations in different homes don't align.
22:34 – 23:00 – What to do when you “didn’t sign up for this.”
49:37 – 50:33 – How to do it the “right way.”
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Talking about sex with your children can feel awkward for many people. However, talking about sex, sexuality, and bodies with your child from a young age can help your child understand that sex and sexuality are healthy parts of life. So, where do you even begin this conversation? And what do you need to say? Here to help us dive into this topic further and answer all of your questions is Andrea Brand, life coach and passionate proponent of comprehensive sex education.
Listen in as Andrea explains the right time to bring sex up with your children, as well as what you should do if your child is a teenager and you haven’t had “the talk” yet. You will learn how to make this topic less uncomfortable, how to ensure your children are staying safe during sex, and what to do if you are raising a child with an ex and you have different views about this topic.
02:00 - 3:30 - What made Andrea a passionate proponent of comprehensive sex education.
3:30 - 5:00 - How the way we were brought up impacts our thoughts about sex.
5:26 - 9:47 - The right age to start talking about sex.
9:47 - 21:00 - Simple steps to take to make the conversation less awkward.
22:00 - 28:00 - What to do if you’re raising a child with an ex and you have different views.
28:00 - 37:00 - Ways to start this conversation with your kids.
37:00 - 47:45 - The risks of not having this conversation with your children.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“Take a slow, deep breath and know that you’re not alone [in feeling awkward about conversations around sex] and know that you’ve go this.” - Andrea Brand
“It’s never too late [to start talking about sex].” - Andrea Brand
“The more we walk about [sex], the less uncomfortable it’s going to get.” - Andrea Brand
3 Interesting Clips:
5:25 - 7:15 - When to bring the conversation of sex up with your children.
10:45 - 14:40 - How to make the conversation less uncomfortable.
32:00 - 35:00 - How to start the conversation with your child.
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No matter how great you are at handling behavioral problems with your child, there always seems to be more that you can learn. Today’s guest is Kimball Lewis, owner and CEO of EmpoweringParents.com. He dives into the reasons why kids act out and shares insight into how to find parenting solutions that address what’s going on beneath the surface.
Listen in as Kimball discusses the ways that parents can deal with difficult kids and offer problem-solving skills that allow for a better relationship. You'll learn the importance of having a unified front as parents and providing consistent consequences and enforcement. Kimball also shares incredible parenting insight and effective takeaways that can improve your parenting skills.
00:58 – 04:43 – Who Kimball is and all about the Transformation Workshop.
04:44 – 10:28 - The time when parents tend to reach out for help and why kids act out.
10:29 – 17:57 - Why you may need to adjust your parenting style for difficult kids.
17:58 – 28:12 - The importance of clear consequences and parents having a unified front.
28:13 – 44:15 - How to avoid the power struggle and quick tips for handling common parenting situations.
44:16 – 56:08 - Underlying self-esteem issues and how behavior is intertwined with that.
50:10 – 56:27 - The truth about our difficult kids and future leaders.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
"You don’t have to attend every fight you’re invited to." – James Lehman
"As a young person, you don’t know how to deal effectively with frustration." – Kimball Lewis
"The kids who are difficult are going to be difficult no matter what. You’re going to have to adjust your parenting style." – Kimball Lewis
3 Interesting Clips:
7:38 – 8:44 - Why kids act out.
11:39 – 12:11 – Why the parent is the solution.
22:04 – 22:43 – Navigating blended families: “The kids didn’t ask for this.”
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If you are separated from the other parent of your child, your experience with co-parenting could be anything from calm to very challenging. Oftentimes, with different houses come different rules, and these different parenting styles can make the already tricky time of co-parenting even harder. So, what do you do if you don’t agree with the way your ex parents? In this episode, we will be sharing our advice on what we believe is the best way to handle different parenting styles.
Listen in as we explain how to shift your thoughts and mindset around divorce and blended families to be more positive—because it doesn’t have to be a negative or bad thing. You will learn how to speak to your child about their other parent (even when you disagree with them), why it is not up to you to decide how your ex parents when you’re not there, and the benefit of always being clear with the rules you create for your kids.
01:40 - 4:30 - What to do when you hate the way your ex parents.
4:30 - 6:30 - What birdhouse parenting is.
6:30 - 9:00 - How to change your mindset around divorce and blended families.
9:00 - 12:00 - How to find common ground with your ex when it comes to parenting.
12:00 - 15:00 - The importance of never speaking negatively about your co-parent.
15:20 - 19:00 - How to discuss the different rules you may have with your child.
19:00 - 26:25 -The importance of good communication with your ex and your child.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“There is a difference between not liking what the other parent is doing and having your kids in dangerous situations.” - Mike
“Sometimes change is good and overcoming challenging things makes you stronger.” - Mike
“Life is always going to be throwing different challenges.” - Summer
3 Interesting Clips:
1:50- 2:30 - Why so many people struggle with this issue.
7:30 - 8:40 - How to shift your mindset around blending families.
11:00 - 11:50 - How to find common ground with a co-parent.
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It’s been a year since we last released an episode, and we’re so excited to say that we’re back! The past year has brought many ups and downs, all of which we will be sharing with you in this episode. We will be explaining what we’ve been up to, a refresh on why we’ve created this podcast in the first place, and a sneak peek at what you can expect to hear in the coming weeks.
Listen in as we describe our exciting new family member and why we don’t share certain personal aspects of our lives online. You will learn why we’re so passionate about sharing our experience with divorce and blending families, why we never bring our children into our adult matters, and so much more.
00:50 - 4:30 - Why we went off the air for a year.
4:30 - 10:55 - Our exciting new family member.
11:47 - 14:25 - Why we don’t get as personal on this podcast.
15:00 - 21:00 - What made us start this podcast in the beginning.
21:00 - 25:30 - The importance of finding help and support if you’re feeling unsure about how to get through divorce.
25:30 - 31:00 - What we plan on talking about on this show in the future.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“Having a dog is as much—if not more—work than having a child.” - Mike
“We’re not experts. We’re just people trying to figure it out.” - Mike
“We’re not going to talk poorly about people in the family.” - Summer
3 Interesting Clips:
12:45 - 13:30 - Why we don’t share everything about our lives on this podcast.
16:00 - 16:40 - Why we’re so passionate about this podcast and sharing our knowledge on this topic.
18:20 - 19:30 - The importance of keeping your divorce-related issues away from your children.
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You probably guessed by the episode title that today is our anniversary! July is a big month: it’s Summer’s birthday month, we celebrate Independence Day, and the best part of July is the day that we celebrate our commitment to each other.
In this episode, we’re reminiscing about the past and sharing how our relationship has grown stronger over the years despite the many challenges and obstacles that life has sometimes thrown our way. We are also divulging our biggest piece of advice for other couples to remember when times are hard - because even the strongest relationships experience hardship, but it’s in the adversity that we can really grow together.
2:00 - 3:00 - Why we love July.
3:00 - 4:04 - Reminiscing about the past.
4:05 - 7:59 - What is the biggest difference between being married and dating?
8:00 - 11:39 - Adversity makes you stronger together.
11:40 - 16:44 - Summer’s favorite all-time family memory.
16:45 - 20:27 - Our advice for pushing through those hard times.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“The longer I’m with you, the more I like you.” - Mike
“Adversity makes you stronger.” - Mike
“Those moments when everyone is disconnected but so connected to each other makes you feel so warm and fuzzy and puts perspective on all the things that we have gone through.” - Summer
3 Interesting Clips:
8:55 - 9:25 - Our love grows deeper and stronger with every challenge thrown our way.
14:00 - 14:40 - The importance of putting things into perspective.
18:00 - 18:20 - Make your relationship a priority, always.
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Your family needs you at your best, but when conflict creeps in between your partner and their ex, it has a tendency to wind you up tight and cause all kinds of frustration and anxiety. So how can this be avoided? And how do you, as a step-parent, know where to draw the line when it comes to your involvement? In this episode, I will be talking about what you can do in these situations, what we have done, and what step-parents are not responsible for doing.
This is a one-on-one session, just me and you, where you’ll get a better understanding of what you can control, what you can’t control, and how to show up for yourself and others in the best way. My ultimate goal is to let you know that you’re not alone and that you shouldn’t be full of guilt and anxiety over these situations. After this episode, you will be able to breathe a little easier and have more clarity on what you can and cannot do as a step-parent.
2:20 – 4:22 – A thank-you from me to you.
4:23 – 5:57 – Why I’m talking about step-parent issues
5:58 – 10:45 – The disruption that conflict has on you and your family.
10:46 – 14:04 – What you can’t control.
14:05 – 21:17 – What you can do.
21:18 – 25:55 – The most important influence you have.
25:56 – 28:29 – How to bring positivity and perspective.
28:30 – 38:05 – The opportunity that comes with hard times.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“If you are the step-parent and your partner is going through an icky, terrible mess, even if you think it is about you, it really isn’t.” - Summer
“You’re probably putting an overwhelming amount of pressure on yourself thinking that somehow you can control all of these outcomes, but all of these outcomes have little to do with you.” - Summer
“Be that sounding board for the anger or venting without inserting your judgment unless asked—and sometimes not even then!” - Summer
3 Interesting Clips:
5:05 – 5:29 – An important reminder about being a step-parent.
11:44 – 12:24 – Your role in changing other people’s behavior.
14:35 – 15:12 – The importance of a clear head.
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Bringing a new person into your child’s life can be confusing and difficult for both you and your child, but there are ways to do it with love and understanding. Karyn Glemaud joins us on the show today to give us some great ideas for how to make the blending process go more smoothly from the start of dating all the way through marriage and moving in together.
Karyn is an entrepreneur, student, and children’s book author who co-wrote a book with her son. She shares from her own experience in a very blended family and discusses how she encourages communication, listening, and empathy—but also firmness through the whole process. You will also get to hear about why she decided to write a book and the impact of this book on her own blending experience.
1:40 – 3:50 – Who Karyn is and her experience in business and writing about a blended family.
3:51 – 8:49 – Why she decided to move to New Zealand and write a book with her son.
8:50 – 11:07 – Insight on when and how to introduce your children to someone new.
11:08 – 14:39 - The importance of sharing relationships the right way.
14:40 – 24:44 – How to make sure everyone feels important and valued in a blended family.
24:45 - 30:49 – How to deal with the pressure of business, a busy life, and guilt while handling a blended family.
30:50 – 33:54 – The learning curve of business success and blending families.
33:55 – 38:48 – Where to find Karyn's book and other resources.
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“I encourage people to not be afraid and to lead with love.” - Karyn
“Ultimately, I think it’s important for you to find love and be able to share that with your children. Your children should see a good example of a loving relationship.” - Karyn
“There’s no right answer, and every child will respond differently.” - Summer
3 Interesting Clips:
6:09 – 6:30 – How her son became her co-author.
9:42 – 10:24 – Validating your child’s feelings while still being firm.
11:12 – 11:45 – The importance of being an example and sharing the right things with your children.
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Being in a blended family and dealing with an ex that puts a strain on your marriage is something a lot of people deal with. In this episode, Kate Anthony joins the show to share her insight on surviving divorce and making key decisions that will help you deal with exes, a difficult second marriage, blending for a second time and more. She has helped women all around the world to make the most difficult decision of their lives and transition out of toxic marriages.
If you are trying to decide whether to heal your relationship or find a way out, Kate has an incredible way of putting things in perspective and shares key steps you should take in order to make a wise and thoughtful decision. Kate talks about things that a lot of us might not want to own up to and it’s so important to hear that and learn from that. She pulls from her own experience along with that of those she has coached and you will be able to gain some incredible insight from that.
6:34 – 9:12 – The "should I stay or should I go" conversation and how common it is for even 2nd & 3rd marriages.
9:13 – 14:59 – Kate’s experience in a volatile abusive marriage and what brought her to helping other people through divorce.
15:00 – 21:25 – Dealing with a dramatic ex and an interesting situation she got herself into with her ex.
21:26 – 27:02 - What the shifting of primary is and how to embrace and recognize it.
27:03 – 24:05 – Making things smoother for the kids and what it takes to get there.
24:06 – 41:25 – How to think clearly in a stressful state and make the best decision for yourself and others.
42:26 – 48:24 – The importance of knowing yourself well and how that effects our relationships.
48:25 – 56:03 – How to not drag your kids through the mud while you’re going through relationship problems.
56:04 – 1:02:06 – Do kids deserve to know the truth about the divorce?
Takeaways:
Quotes:
“You can sign the papers but it doesn’t mean anything if you keep up a relationship that continues the dynamic.” - Kate
“This person may be a total a**hole but you picked the a**hole.” - Kate
“If you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop, it probably will. So protect yourself and have those boundaries.” - Kate
3 Interesting Clips:
4:15 – 5:20 – A little (important) secret that Kate and Summer share.
7:00 – 7:36 – The reality of 2nd divorces and having to blend again.
14:01 – 14:43 – How to make sure you don’t make the same mistakes over and over.
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The podcast currently has 105 episodes available.