Turn-ons, arousals, kinks, fetishes can constantly change, morph, come and go. Sex is all about exploration and most importantly fun! From getting some sexy lingerie, visiting a sex store, to role playing, to tying each other up, to bringing in other people into the mix or going to a BDSM dungeon. The most important thing is to be honest with yourself and your partner, the person you have chosen to share your life with. As well, be open to when your partner comes to you with their desires, and instead of saying a blanket no, get creative so you both will be comfortable. Have fun!