It's easy to get caught up in this idea that perfection is needed in finding a partner while everything around you tells you that whoever you get with needs to "have it all together" in order to be in a healthy relationship. That's not true, that's not even possible. But, when we examine our potential partners it gives us a sense of understanding of how to navigate the potential relationship. Examining helps us decide if we want to be a partner to those we see ourselves in romantic relationships with. Check out this short episode where examination is discussed as the key to entering into romantic relationships.