The Daily Surrender

Exhausted from People-Pleasing? Here's How to Stop Performing for Love


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Love has become deeply confused in our culture often treated as something to earn, prove, or receive through performance, validation, or relationship status.

In this Valentine's Day episode Jennifer Ragazzo invites midlife women into a profound reordering of love 0 one that moves away from striving and toward embodied, unconditional love sourced from within.

Drawing from personal experience, spiritual wisdom, and years of working with women, Jennifer explores how early conditioning; especially "good girl" programming and spiritual performance -turns love into a transactional exchange. Over time, this disconnection from source love shows up as exhaustion, burnout, anxiety, hormone imbalance, and chronic depletion.

This episode explores:

  • Why seeking love externally always leads to burnout

  • How love becomes confused with survival and fear

  • The cost of people-pleasing and perfectionism in midlife

  • Reordering the inner hierarchy from striving → receiving → loving

  • The relationship between love, embodiment, and nervous system regulation

  • Why you don't lose love, but you can lose access to receiving it

This conversation is an invitation for women in midlife to stop performing for love and begin living from it.

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The Daily SurrenderBy Jennifer Ragazzo