Expanded Lovemaking

In this show, Learn as Dr. Patti goes into depth with John Zielinski about why the Taoist system is so powerful. Hear about the energetic “storm” that is created at birth, that helps create males and females, and the energy streams that give us all life force energy stream. Why is this significant? Learn about the BIGGEST Taoist secret of all: The Microcosmic Orbit: how it works, and how you can incorporate it into your sexuality. Can both men and women can use it? Learn how men can use the “big draw” and “little draw” to influence ejaculatory patterns. Discover the yin-yang exchange that will help lovemaking go to the deepest levels imaginable, and how to create this exchange with a beloved. Now, do you need to be in a particular Taoist position? If so, what or which are best?

John shares with us the specific books, DVDs, and learning that help us study sexual Taoist sexual mastery. He illustrates why couples find this system a rich resource for building passion as well. He discusses and answers the “ejaculation” question – should men ejaculate, and if so, on what frequency? John generously gives us some more great “pieces” to add to our “building blocks” of “must-have” knowledge about the valuable Taoist system of lovemaking!

This show ties in to our EL Show #28 very nicely, where we interview his teacher, Mantak Chia, on the overview of Taoist Lovemaking. A rich show, chock-full of information and inspiration!

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Destin Gerek, a Sexological Bodyworker, sex educator, artist, video producer, and, of course, the original “Erotic Rockstar”. Just who is this fascinating persona? Think of those times you seen someone reaching out to an admiring audience, or otherwise welcoming person, confident in love, and voilà! This person performs with generosity, delight, sparkle, and verve! How does he or she do it? Is this something you can do, and if so how? Destin gives you a three day erotic makeover program which, when followed, is the opposite of a diet. It's a splurge! Find out what you can do on days one, two, and three to prepare for the date of a lifetime. Be ready to step outside your normal routine with simple, easy, and fun practices designed to have you feel way more confident, sexy, and self-loving. Discover why self exploration is so valuable, and hear the different ways to do it on different days. Learn how eye engagement will blow your partner's heart wide open. Swivel those hips, move that breath, and get that sound going to really amp up your level of sensation! Destin’s voice alone will melt and inspire anyone alive! After your three days, you'll meet your partner, who's hopefully been practicing as well. But, if not, no worries. Destin will walk you through taking the lead in love, as any great Erotic Rockstar would. You’ll create an amazingly loving and memorable experience.

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Dr. Sasha Lessin and his wife, Janet Lessin, about All-Chakra Tantra. The Lessins are the founders of the School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii, where they teach people to make love with their whole being, and to unblock any and all stuck places that get in the way of intimacy, personal power and full orgasmic presence. Learn what the chakras mean, and how to use them to create a beautiful lovemaking ceremony. Experience for yourself a dynamic process that Sasha and Janet use to generate connection using the seven chakras to send shivers of delight up your spine! You can feel the energy while listening, and better yet, also reproduce this in your own home with the handout the Lessins give. Then, tune in as Sasha gives Janet a reenactment of a full ejaculatory orgasm. Sasha very specifically goes stroke by stroke over exactly how he evokes every little nuance and pleasure from Janet’s clit and “cave”, as well as creating her “gushing” over the edge. Youwill get lots of specific ideas. Janet’s commentaries on the emotional impact of Sasha’s touches, and her vulnerability, are priceless, as are both of their spoken words to one another. Learn the kind of work the Lessins do to help others with issues such as sexual healing and emotional blocks to sex in their private counseling. This show models how easily true expanded love can be made! Plus, find out how they connect their work to planetary healing.

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Veronica Monet, who has 14 years of “hands-on” experience as a courtesan. She is also Certified Sex Educator, specializing in sexuality, anger management, non-violent communication and relationship dynamics. Find out how Veronica started life in a normal job and ended up in this unusual one, and the shocking discovery she made about her new job requirements! What do men really want? What did she have to do to please men, and how did she go about learning? Can women of all “professions” and walk of life learn to please a man? What happens once a session begins? What does Veronica do to drive a man into ecstasy? Listen as Dr. Patti and Veronica discuss their favorite fun ways to please men (and women) with simple action, that can easily be done even after a long day. You'd be surprised at how little it takes to bring a smile (and an enthusiastic response) from a man, when the intention is there! Don't miss Veronica’s juicy description of how to please a man or a woman by noticing breathing and other nonverbal cues! You'll be totally inspired to go home and try this out immediately! Discover how role reversal can add spice, and the value of communication for adding to the passion. Veronica's many tips are sure to thrill, titillate, and just plain turn you on.

Dr. Patti and Heron Saline discuss how to add savor and spice to your lovemaking so that it feels safe, and yet expanded. Heron Saline, a master hypnotherapist, has over 30 years experience in a wide range of integrated mind/body therapeutic modalities. Discover what is safe to have as a fantasy? What about those thoughts we don't want to have? How can we enjoy our fantasies, and use them for added turn-on with a loved one? What about solo sex? Listen as Heron creates a real time exercise with Dr. Patti, in which she has a fantasy right on the air involving a growling, hot, passionate lover! Find out where she feels this in her body, and the questions you can ask your lover to encourage him or her to develop their fantasies too. Listeners can learn to ask their partner open-ended questions to encourage them to develop their fantasies. Such questions can be fun, revealing, and even lead to avenues of profound self-exploration and development. Fantasy and imagination can be healing, and can take the form of role-play, situations, and other juicy scenarios. Find out which ones Dr. Patti likes, from which ones she thinks men and women like best, respectively! Because fantasies do bring up feelings and emotions, Heron describes why some people may choose to work with a therapist in exploring how to put fantasy in the best possible context with the rest of their lovemaking life. A truly love - and life - expanding show!

In this rare show, hear Dr. Patti converse with Master Mantak Chia, world-famous teacher of the cultivation of energy leading to increased health, well-being, and sexual mastery for both men and women. Chia is famous as a Chi Gung and sexual energy master whose overarching system of practices includes an array of activities for maintaining health and well-being in body, mind, heart, and spirit. In the sexual arena, and in the West, he is famous for his work on the Microcosmic Orbit, leading to practices of non-ejaculatory orgasm for men and more orgasmic bliss for women and couples. He is the author/ co-author of many books, including &“the Multi-Orgasmic Man&”, the Multi-Orgasmic Couple&”, and the &“Multi-Orgasmic Woman&”, all bringing amazing as well as useful Taoist wisdom to our culture.& In this interview, Master Chia gives us a full range of his thinking on Taoist system of sexual energy cultivation. Hear Dr. Patti explore with Master Chia the cosmological and philosophical roots of this system, practical exercises for men and women for cultivating this sexual energy within themselves, and ways to deepen heart energy. You&’ll learn techniques for Taoist lovemaking and more! Again, this is a rare interview hear it and savor it many times over.& It is sure to inspire you and open your mind!

We are fortunate that Master Chia has recorded some of his rare teachings on DVD for home viewing and study.& Recommended DVDs to accompany this show include the following:

The Sexual Alchemy Healing Love Five CD Set

The Inner Alchemy CD Set which includes the Microcosmic Orbit

The Cosmic Inner Smile

The Cosmic Healing Sounds

Iron Shirt Chi Kung to Awaken Internal Healing Energy

In this awesome show you&’ll meet Deborah Sundahl, the international sex educator who specializes in teaching women and couples about the G-spot and female ejaculation. You&’ll learn what the G-spot is, what area it covers, and how to explore this area (as a woman) manually and with a sex toy. Find out the differences between clitoral orgasms and G-spot orgasms, and what you&’d do to touch a woman differently? Learn why relaxation is such an important key to G-spot orgasms and ejaculations. Female ejaculations come in all sizes and flavors, and you&’ll find out just the different ways you can expect them to appear. Come into a luscious mindset and learn with us! Do mechanical formulas work in getting women to ejaculate? What happens if a woman feels the need to urinate? Do &“gushers&” feel as good as small quantities? How much ejaculate can come out in one session? Would seeing other women ejaculate be enough to learn how yourself! And, does effort help produce more liquid? How can men help? Learn about the deeper emotional aspects of G-spot orgasms as well, and even the sacred links to higher consciousness of these orgasms. Find out why learning this type of orgasm is can be life long process of learning and opening to increasing levels of emotional healing, awakening, and bliss. find out what motivates Deborah to keep teaching after all these years! With Deborah&’s books, videos, workshops, and even streaming videos, you&’ll feel you have lots of resources available, after hearing this show!

Dr. Patti and Jamye Waxman discuss the wonderful world of sex toys. Jamye is a New York City sexologist, and author of Getting Off: A Woman&’s Guide to Masturbation, which covers sex toys extensively, as well as providing a compendium of all kinds of lists sex-pleasurable to encourage the woman to gift herself with pleasure.& And, she&’s worked in a famous sex toy shop, Babeland, for over five years.

Today, there are so many products out there to choose from. They come in an array of materials, shapes, sizes, and functions. You&’ll learn all about what products women choose most when they buy a toy. What are the latest trends in vibrators? What are the features, and distinctions we might want to be looking for (and lusting over?) What&’s new in dildoes? How do we know which one to buy? Find out why glass is so desired! And learn about Jamye&’s own favorite picks!

Discover men&’s toys, including the one every man (apparently) dreams of owning!& There are dildoes, vibrating cock rings, &“butt balls&” and &“sleeves&” that even couples getting racy can have hours of fun with! A woman will find it easy to gift her man after hearing some of these suggestions!

After a thoughtful discussion of lubes, and how to shop for gifts, we consider why Jamye wrote a book on women&’s masturbation, and, just gifting yourself… with yourself! A totally fun, meaningful, and hot, playful show!

In this show, Dr. Patti asks Jack Johnston to describe the revolutionary Multiple Orgasm Trigger Method for men and women, designed to intensify pleasurable sensation, prolong feelings before ejaculation (for men), and experience wave after wave of orgasmic pleasure. Jack tells us how the protocol works, and why he feels it so effective for prolonging orgasm.& Learn why the use of sound can be so essential for bringing out and accentuating the body's own orgasmic wiring. Find out why Dr. Patti is so excited to learn of the applications of this technology. Learn about the range of orgasmic situations and challenges that can be addressed with these practices: premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and inability to have orgasm are just a few.& People seeking to intensify already functional and exceptional sex lives also love this work.& Find out about Jack's extensive support network surrounding his audio program and the Key Sound that he teaches, and why a deep Barry White voice is so sexy! Learn how thousands of others have responded to doing this work, and what Dr. Patti and her partner felt when they began practicing in preparation for the show. Note: the turn on went in unexpected directions! Patti reads comments from Jack&’s user group for a &“reality show&” feeling this week. You'll get the point: this stuff is amazing and really works!& Check out this show, it's not to be missed. Rather&— share it with everyone you want to see have a spring in their step and a smile on their face!

In this episode, Patti shines as a true genius, sharing her vast knowledge on refining and enhancing the orgasmic experience beyond the normal, even sometimes brief, experience we call regular orgasm. She compellingly integrates consciousness and pleasure into a practice that has its roots in ancient religious practices, and is also a state-of-the-art, and evolving dynamic practice.

Hear Patti define Expanded Orgasm and take us on a juicy ride as she does! Learn the two essential ingredients required to give your partner genuine, over-the-edge, Expanded Orgasms! She reveals a priceless secret: how to find the orgasmic current, a seemingly infinite state where intimacy, pleasure, and consciousness become one!

Patti shares from her rare and amazing body of research about those who engage in Expanded Orgasmic practices. Learn what astonishing benefits accrue to their bodies, minds, hearts and spirits. Learn how long it takes to begin reaping the rewards, and how likely practitioners are to continue on a genuine practice path, once they begin learning Expanded Orgasm.

She also shares heartfelt real life stories of how her work has impacted couples, women seeking to reclaim their turn-on, and even singles seeking re-enter dating again. And, share a moment of rapturous touch with Patti, which she invites all of us to try!