On our worst days, what do we fall back on?In this third installment of our miniseries, we shift from religion to love—through the lens of Heavy Deluxe: THE LIGHT by SiR. Part listening party, part emotional unpacking, Shelton breaks down the new tracks on the album and the ways love shows up when life hits hardest. It’s not just critique. It’s confession.Press play—and Experience Relativity, For The Record.

Ever wonder what it’s like to be God? Roles like parent, police officer, HR rep, and teacher offer a glimpse. Each carries the authority to shape lives, enforce rules, and serve others. But when that kind of responsibility rests on a human, empathy can begin to erode. In this episode, we explore what it means to occupy a “God position”—and consider whether a storied death holds the key to succeeding when you find yourself in one. Press play and Experience Relativity.

This Easter, I reflect on how performance—whether on a rocket ship or in religion—can get in the way of truth. From growing up in a fear-based faith to nearly over-producing this podcast, I share what happens when we stop staging and start showing up.

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What does it really mean to go All Out? Not in the performative, max-effort-for-show way—but in the real, honest, soul-baring way. This is the final phase of pacing. The moment when there’s nothing left to hold, nothing left to hide, and everything to give.

In this episode, we explore the fifth and final phase of pacing yourself through life and the marathon: All Out. It’s where “have to” and “want to” collide. Where habit and willpower meet truth. Where the preparation you’ve done—your training, your data, your reflection—introduces you to a version of yourself you’ve never met before. This is where vulnerability becomes power, and effort becomes identity.

From story time reflections on rhabdomyolysis and balance to confronting the “butt-naked truth,” we break down what it means to reach your finish line with nothing left inside because you went all out.

It’s time to Get W.I.L.D.E.R.—with Patience, Rhythm, Focus, Grind, and now… All Out.

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Two weeks removed from the marathon and still appreciating the grind, I’ve been thinking about what the grind really is. Not the glamorized version. Not the hustle tweets. The real grind—where purpose meets pain and progress meets patience.

In this episode, we talk about Grind not as a badge of honor, but as a bridge to discovery. Whether you see it as a means to an end or a means to evolve, it’s where we find out who we are, what we’re built for, and how we choose to show up when no one’s watching.

From the moment you’re born, the race is on. You vs. You. And while most of us don’t remember the starting line, it’s the stretch between birth and finish that defines everything for us. We explore the power of staying grounded while grinding, the clarity that can come in motion, and why the hardest and most meaning thing we’ve ever done is behind us, but our lack of memory of it makes everything else seem so much harder. 

It’s time to Get W.I.L.D.E.R.—to shift from transactional to transformational, and to see the grind for what it really is: the ground we grow from.

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Two weeks after crossing the finish line in Rome, my body is sore, my spirit is full, and my thoughts are clearer than they’ve ever been. Creating this episode became a test of focus in itself—one that reminded me why this conversation is necessary.In this episode, we explore the third phase of pacing: Focus. Not as something you force, but something you find. Some people learn to acknowledge distraction for what it is. Others choose violence. Either way, it’s about choosing presence in the midst of chaos, peace over panic, and rhythm over rush.Whether you’re training for a marathon, trying to meditate, or just keeping your lawn alive, this one’s for you. We talk about conserving energy for what matters, avoiding the trap of motion without progress, and learning not to mistake every distraction for a mountain. Because the race is on regardless—and how you run still matters.It’s time to Get W.I.L.D.E.R.—to find peace in your pace, power in your presence, and focus in the middle of the noise.🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major platforms.#xRelativity #Focus #PaceYourself #MindsetMatters #MarathonMindset #GetWILDER #ReflexEmpathy #YouVsYou #RunYourRace #ExperienceRelativity #PresenceOverPanic #MeditativeState #StayTheCourse #DMVPodcasts#ExploringTheSpaceBetweenUs @OnePeloton @saucony ​

Whether you’re a runner or not, life itself is a race—one you never had the choice to enter. From birth, the clock starts ticking, and the finish line is inevitable. But what happens in between? That’s where the rhythm, the pacing, the patience, and the process come in.

In this episode, we explore the intersection of running and life—how The Marathon Continues beyond the physical, how rhythm and restraint shape progress, and why enthusiasm and indifference are just different ways of approaching the same road. I reflect on my journey from hating running to completing a marathon, breaking down the lessons learned along the way: the power of patience, the inevitability of time, and the moment you realize you’re not racing against anyone but yourself.

It’s time to Get W.I.L.D.E.R.—to push beyond comfort zones, to embrace the challenge, and to find the rhythm that moves you forward.

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🔥 Red Glare | Experience Relativity Podcast – February 2025 Episode 🔥

🎆 The rockets’ red glare… but what does it illuminate?

In this episode of Experience Relativity, we dive into the paradox of American history—where love, resilience, and sacrifice coexist with denial, guilt, and unresolved trauma. Inspired by the famous line from the Star-Spangled Banner, we explore how the very anthem that celebrates freedom was written at a time when many were still in bondage.

🔎 Key Topics:

• The Duality of America: “The land of the free” and “the home of the slave”—what does this contradiction reveal?

• Unconditional Love & Persistence: Can love exist despite historical and systemic injustice?

• The Heartbeat of a Nation: America as a metaphorical child—raised by both enslaved and non-enslaved Americans.

• Filial Love & Hatred: How does a nation reconcile its past while resisting full recognition of its debts?

• Builders & Nurturers of America: Enslaved Americans as the nation’s “founding mothers” who labored, carried, and nurtured a world power into existence.

• A Strained Relationship: If America were a family, what lessons do the parents need to learn to raise a nation they both can be proud of?

💡 How do we teach love when justice is denied? How do we heal wounds that remain open?

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🌅 Dawn’s Early Light | Experience Relativity Podcast – February 2025 Episode 3 🌅

🎆 By the dawn’s early light… what stories do we uncover?

In this episode of Experience Relativity, we trace the flickering lights of awareness — those first moments when truth pierced the veil of comfort. Inspired by the opening line of the Star-Spangled Banner, Dawn’s Early Light explores the earliest voices that stood against injustice, the weight of being ahead of your time, and the emotional toll of carrying truths the world isn’t ready to see.

🔎 Key Topics:

• Early Voices of Resistance: From the Quakers’ first documented opposition to slavery to the slow march of moral progress — who saw the light first, and what did it cost them?

• Righteousness vs. Resentment: When does being “right” feel like a burden, and how do you navigate the frustration of waiting for others to catch up?

• Witnessing & Waiting: What does it mean to stand on the edge, watching history unfold, unable to change it alone?

• Support vs. Help: Do we know the difference — and why does it matter when building communities and movements?

• The Space Between Us: How do we hold space for each other’s evolving truths while honoring the ones who saw the light first?

💡 How do we find peace when our light is too bright for the moment we live in? How do we hold onto our truth without letting resentment take root?

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Say, Can You See? | Experience Relativity Podcast – February Ep. 1🗽 The land of the free was simultaneously the home of the slave. 🗽In this episode of Experience Relativity, we explore the duality of American history through the lens of the Star-Spangled Banner, the Emancipation Proclamation, and Juneteenth. What did it feel like to be an enslaved person hearing the anthem of a nation that proclaimed freedom, yet denied it to so many? How could the lyrics of the anthem inspire both the patriot and the oppressed?🔍 Key Topics: • The origins of The Star-Spangled Banner • Star Spangled Banner (1814) to Juneteenth (1865) 50-Year Paradox • The reality vs. the perception of freedom in early America • American history and our collective memory and identity • Music, and symbolism that spoke to the free and the enslaved. 🎧 Tune in as we examine historical contradictions, challenge assumptions, and encourage deeper reflection on the narratives that shape our world.💬 Join the Conversation!What are your thoughts on the meaning of freedom in America? Drop a comment below and let’s talk!🔔 Subscribe to Experience Relativity for more thought-provoking discussions that challenge perspective and inspire growth.✨ Experience Relativity – Exploring the space between us#ExperienceRelativity #History #Podcast #SayCanYouSee #StarSpangledBanner #EmancipationProclamation #Juneteenth #AmericanHistory #Freedom #Perspective