The experimental experience is the most effective learning tool. Think of every situation as the laboratory, mixing, matching, and mingling until we find what is comfortable…knowing every once in a while there will be a spontaneous reaction that might be explosive or uneventful, but the reaction is always temporary until eventually everything falls back into equilibrium. Set the intention to enjoy the experimental experiences that life brings, so there is never a reason to dwell in the explosive reaction because the questions are revealing the answers to everything we need to know to attain equilibrium.