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Exploring Power, Art, and Intimacy: A Deep Dive with Mistress Malisandre


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Exploring Power, Art, and Intimacy: A Deep Dive with Mistress Malisandre

Mistress Malisandre, an artist, author, and power dynamic educator, discusses how her work with the House of Embers explores the transformation of power through art and immersive experiences.

She shares her journey into power dynamics, beginning with observing power in her formative years and eventually becoming a professional dominatrix. Malisandre elaborates on the misconceptions surrounding BDSM and how she integrates elements of power dynamics into the lives of vanilla couples, emphasizing the importance of communication and consent.

She also reflects on the vulnerability involved in her role, the ritualistic aspects of her practice, and her efforts to mentor others in the community. Additionally, Malisandre talks about her ongoing projects, including writing a book, and her mission to change conversations around power dynamics and therapy. The conversation touches on themes of intentional living, self-acceptance, and the necessity of maintaining boundaries.

00:00 Introduction to Mistress Malisandre

00:42 Early Life and Power Dynamics

03:21 Exploring Power in Relationships

04:50 Journey into BDSM

08:47 Misconceptions About BDSM

13:13 Communication in Relationships

18:24 Professional Domination and Personal Growth

31:15 Art and Ritual in Domination

41:17 Empathy and Holding Space

42:05 Freedom Through Control

42:52 Understanding Power Dynamics

44:07 The Process of Release

48:09 Setting Boundaries in Domination

53:35 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing

58:54 Balancing Vulnerability and Strength

01:08:32 Future Aspirations and Projects

https://www.instagram.com/malisandres_place/

https://substack.com/@malisandre

https://www.mistressmalisandre.com/

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The Intimacy InquiryBy Andrew Phipps