Singammisa kanjani umfana wethu ukuchama njalo? Singathola kanjani umnyombo walokhu kuchama esemdala? Kuyakhathaza ukuwasha njalo izingubo zakhe zokulala esezibhukudise ngomchamo.Sengilahlakelwe ukubekezela futhi naye ngiyambona ulimele ngokuthi sengidiniwe.Sikhona isisombululo kulenkinga?

Ngingafundisa kanjani isizotha ezinganeni zami ngoba sekubukeka kuyinto esikhohlakala ezinganeni nakwabadala.Kusemqoka kimi kodwa ngibuka ubunzima besikhathi esikuso.

Ngingabafundisa kanjani abami bebe nomozwa ngomunye umuntu njengoba sesiphila nje esikhathini lakhona abantu bengesenandaba nomunye?

umkhwenyana wami usebe nomkhuba wokuba wudlame emshadweni wethu wonke.Ngizizwa ngagaxela la.Kwezinye izikhathi ngisabela ukuphepha kwami,kodwa angazi ngintunte ngiyephi.Ningangisiza’

Ngibhekane kanjani nomamezala wami ekungangikholweni kwakhe ukukhulisa izingane zami ,uvese angihahabeze phambi komyeni wami nezingane.Sekwenele manje! Ngenze njani?

Kodwa intombazane yami ngingayimisa kanjani amanga? Ngimbamba njalo esungula izinganenkwane ekhaya kodwa nguye futhi kimi ode ekhala ngokuthi izingane eskoleni azikholwa yilutho alushoyo.Ngakube unesipho sokusungula ingxoxo noma inkinga yamanga nje?

Umbuzo othi ngakube ingcindezi iyisono ,abaningi imvamisa bazibuza wona uma bebhekene nemizwa ebuhlungu enhlizyweni.

Uthini umbono wenu nge –teenager ezibandakanye ne –social network kunye ne –online chat rooms?Sengike ngafunda izinkulumo zamanye ama teen kuma –sites indodakazi yami efuna ukungena kuwona ,futhi abukeka engenabungozi .Nokho nginokusabela ukulahlekelwa ngukulawula ingane yami ,igcine iphethwe ngontaka bayo.Ngakube kumele ngikhathazeke?

Ngakube ngempela ibhayibheli lithi kubi ukugembula? Ngiyabona ukuthi nakho kunjengoku dansa nokudlala amakhadi –amakholwa aqinisa kakhulu, amelene nakho.nokho angikholwa kunezisekelo zezwi azisebenzisa ukumelana nakho mina engikubuka kuwumdlalo nje ongenabungozi.

Ngenze njani uma ngikholwa ukuthi umkhwenyana wami ubuka izithombe zobunqunu ezixakile? Kanginabo ubufakazi obuqanda ikhanda kodwa nginazo izinsolo eziseka lokhukwesaba enginakho.Uvese abhoke ngolaka uma ngike nje ngathi ngakhuluma ngalesihloko athi ngidlala imicabango nje .Ningiluleka nithini?

Yikuphi ngempela la khona ibhayibheli lithi kuyicala ukulala ngaphandle komshado? Abazali bami bahlala bengiyala njalo ngokuthi izwi lisiyalela singayi ocansini phambi komshado.Manje ngoba sengikhulile sengikwazi ukuzicabangela ,sengiqala ukuyingabaza leyonto.Angikakaqondani nento ebhayibhelini evumelana nalombono wabo.Okwedlulele ukuthi angikatholi simo lakhona ibhayibheli likhuluma ngomshado wasesontweni! UIsaka no Rebheka abazange bashade esontweni.Bazihlanganela bazilalela kwaphela kanjalo!