Whatwould happen if the United States walked into a psychotherapist's officetoday—and what diagnosis would explain our nation's escalating politicaldivision, anger, and social unrest?
PhyllisLeavitt spent 34 years as a licensedpsychotherapist treating severe family dysfunction, abuse, and childhoodtrauma. In her book Americain Therapy: A Practical Guide to Healing What Ails Us, Phyllisapplies the proven principles of family therapy to modern society. She arguesthat political hatred, bullying, and systemic violence are not ideologicalissues—they are the unhealed symptoms of a collective mental health crisis. Bydrawing parallels between toxic family roles (bullies, victims, and enablers),Phyllis presents a psychological roadmap to heal societal wounds, resolveconflicts safely, and restore empathy.
In this episode of FailCraft, Phyllis joins Ezekiel for a compassionateand deep conversation. She breaks down why violence acts as a cry for help, howunhealed childhood trauma fuels aggressive behaviors in leadership, and howindividuals can break the cycle of rage within their own homes.
Inthis episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:
· America on the Couch: Diagnosing societal division and political rage througha clinical lens.
· Roles in a Toxic Nation: Identifying the dynamics of bullies, victims, andenablers in society.
· The Turning Point of Pain: Why severe crises force families—and nations—to seekhealing [04:25 / 08:31].
· Hurt People Hurting People: Understanding how unhealed childhood trauma fuelssocietal violence [08:53 / 11:13].
· The Identified Patient: Viewing school shooters and violent actors as cries forhelp [12:30 / 14:06].
· Healing Your Inner Child: How personal trauma recovery builds empathy for others[17:32 / 19:41].
ConnectWith Phyllis Leavitt:
· Website Hub: phyllisleavitt.com
· Books:Find America in Therapy: A Practical Guide to Healing What Ails Usalongside her personal healing memoirs on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and majorbooksellers.
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00:00 Introduction:Phyllis Leavitt & Putting America in Therapy
01:43 Diagnosing thePatient: Societal Abuse, Neglect, and Symptoms
04:25 Toxic FamilyRoles in Politics: Bullies, Victims, and Enablers
08:31 The TurningPoint: Why Pain Drives Us to Seek Help
08:53 UnhealedTrauma: Why Hurt People Hurt People
12:30 The IdentifiedPatient: Viewing Violence as a Cry for Help
17:32 Healing YourOwn Inner Child to Help Others
20:30 RedefiningSuccess as a Contribution to Peace and Healing
22:19 Connect withPhyllis Leavitt & America in Therapy
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