Faith Influencer

One question I often get asked at events is, "How long should we wait to blend our family and remarry?" Today, we’re diving deep into this important subject. We'll explore why you shouldn't rush into remarriage without first dealing with your past issues and emotional baggage. We'll discuss the importance of transparency in new relationships and the pitfalls of keeping secrets. Whether you’re considering remarriage after a divorce or the death of a spouse, this episode is full of insights to help you make the best decision for you and your family. Let’s get started!

I’m excited to share this special episode, recorded live at Life Church, where we dive deep into the unique challenges that blended families face. In this episode, we talk about the importance of a strong marriage as the foundation for successful parenting. I know it’s a tough pill for some to swallow, but trust me, it’s key. We also explore the baggage we all bring into second marriages and how to unpack it for a healthier relationship. This episode combines lessons from a few of my previous episodes, so if you're interested in a deeper dive, be sure to check those out too. Tune in and let’s get started!

In Episode 19, we're addressing a practical and often challenging topic: finances in blended families. Building on our last episode, we'll explore when it might be best not to combine finances and how to manage these situations effectively. With my experience in finance and insurance, I'll guide you through setting up inheritance plans for stepchildren, the importance of life insurance policies with designated beneficiaries, and the role of power of attorney for healthcare and financial decisions.

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In today's episode, we’re diving into money issues in blended families. Money issues rank among the top challenges in blended families, right up there with children and dealing with ex-spouses. In this episode we’ll explore why these money conflicts happen and how they’re often about more than just dollars and cents—they’re about control, power, and trust. And I’ll give you my take on one of the biggest questions: Should you combine your finances? Spoiler alert: There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but I’ll share my preference and why it works for many.

Think it's easier because the children are out of the house? Think again! Adult children can create just as much chaos, if not more, than younger ones. We're tackling the uncomfortable reality of "enabling" adult children – when parents cripple their grown kids by preventing them from becoming independent and responsible. This isn't about blessing your children; it's about coddling them to their detriment. How common is this? More than you might want to admit!

Imagine stepping into a marriage only to find out your spouse is still catering to their grown kids' every whim. What does that do to your relationship? Spoiler alert: it wreaks havoc. The new spouse might see you as weak, and their respect for you will plummet. This isn't just inconvenient – it's toxic.

Let's confront the elephant in the room and tackle these tough issues head-on.

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This week, we're diving into a tough but crucial topic: dealing with an ex who lacks effective parenting skills. If you're worried about what your kids are exposed to at their other parent's house—whether it's immaturity, bad habits, or questionable friends—you’re not alone.

As both a stepparent and a parent, I deeply understand the challenges you face. We're going to explore practical strategies to counteract the negative influences your children might encounter when they're with your ex. From creating stability through routines and rituals to building self-esteem and setting boundaries, we'll cover actionable steps you can take to provide a positive, nurturing environment in your own home.

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I've come across a fascinating rulebook on fighting fair, but I'd rather call it communicating better. Because let's face it, no one likes to fight with their spouse.

In this episode, we're tackling the essential rules that can transform how you and your spouse talk to each other. We'll explore why timing matters, the power of a well-placed timeout, and the importance of taking turns during discussions. Plus, I'll share a personal pet peeve about a common but damaging communication habit.

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In today's episode, we're tackling a big issue in blended families: mistrust. Ever thought about why your ex-spouse still affects your current relationship? You might not even realize it’s happening. We’ll explore why mistrust is so common and how to deal with it.

It's also important to remember that your remarriage is a vow and a union. Your heart is safe with your new spouse, so it’s crucial to communicate openly and honestly.

Let's dive in together. Have a question or story to share? Reach out to me directly at [email protected].

In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most challenging and frequently discussed topics in blended families: dealing with the ex-spouse. This issue hits home for so many of us, and I’m feeling extra passionate about it.

We’ll explore the top frustrations that arise, such as when an ex oversteps boundaries or when your spouse seems a little too friendly with their ex. We'll talk about the importance of setting firm boundaries, like ensuring your ex doesn’t just walk into your home unannounced or overstep in your personal space. We'll also discuss the significance of prioritizing your current spouse’s feelings over those of your ex.

Let's work together to strengthen our marriages and bring more peace and understanding to our blended families.

Welcome to Episode 12 of the Faith Influencer Podcast! In today’s episode, we're diving into a topic that many of you have asked about: co-parenting with an ex, especially within blended families. This episode is packed with real-life stories and practical advice to help you navigate these often tricky waters.

We'll discuss how to handle these situations better, focusing on what’s best for the children involved. From hosting single events to managing your emotions, this episode is all about putting your kids first.