Affairs are something many couples fear, and sadly, many experience—but they’re not often talked about openly. In this episode, we have a real conversation about why affairs happen, how trust gets rebuilt, and what healing can look like after betrayal.
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(00:00) Teaser
(00:47) Welcome & Episode Intro
(03:31) Marriage before the affair
(04:52) Warning signs before the affair
(05:48) Sequence of events leading to the affair
(07:47) How Christophe justified continuing the affair
(10:01) What was really going on during the affair
(12:57) How Sandy found out
(15:33) Christophe's response when Sandy found out
(17:00) What the days after looked like
(20:38) Were your kids aware?
(21:13) Christophe's turning point
(25:40) Sandy's response to Christophe's apology
(26:55) Sandy: Were there moments you wanted to give up?
(28:57) Sandy: Did you ever blame yourself?
(29:36) RAPID REVELATIONS
(32:14) Struggles after reuniting
(34:45) Christophe's withdrawal symptoms
(35:38) How friends and family responded
(37:06) What community support looked like
(39:15) How Sandy learned to trust again
(41:55) How Christophe dealt with guilt and shame
(43:08) Encouragement for other couples
(45:17) Outro
(45:56) Bonus clip: A moment captured after filming
(48:03) Outtakes
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