Family Abide: A Faith, Family, and Finance Podcast

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On this special Mother’s Day episode of Family Abide, we honor the memory of my mother and reflect on the lessons that live beyond a lifetime.

The conversation starts with laughter and childhood stories — including whether I got “Michael Jackson beatings” with a belt or the reality of getting hit with a switch growing up. From there, we transition into one of the most important financial conversations families often avoid: beneficiaries.

We break down why every account should have a beneficiary listed so your money goes where you intended instead of getting tied up or lost. We also discuss how to thoughtfully choose beneficiaries, why every person should not automatically be included, and how wise planning protects the people you love most.

This daddy-daughter conversation is filled with humor, heart, family memories, and practical financial wisdom that every family needs to hear.

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In this episode, we break down how the Metzger household picks summer camps using the 4 P's: Price, Proximity, Programming, and People. From budgeting tips to finding camps that fit your family’s vibe, tune in for practical ways to plan a fun, faith-filled summer without the stress.

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In this episode of Family Abide, Robert and Charity Metzger take it to "The Yard" to break down the benefits of an end-of-year expense audit. Just like a campus conversation at an HBCU, they keep it real about identifying financial wins and challenges. Taking time to assess where you excel and where you struggle is the first step to making meaningful financial changes. Tune in for a casual yet insightful discussion on how families can wrap up the year strong and set the stage for a better financial future.

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In this episode, we explore practical ways to manage back-to-school expenses, especially during the shift from uniforms to regular clothes. For families with multiple kids, budgeting for school clothes and supplies can be overwhelming, but we've got tips to help ease the load:

1. Don’t wait for back-to-school deals.
2. Stack multiple discounts whenever possible.
3. Shop during tax-free weeks in your area.
4. Look for community back-to-school giveaways.
5. Set a firm budget for spending.
6. Don’t forget ancillary items like socks, underwear, and haircuts.
7. Involve your kids in the budgeting process—it’s a great way to teach them financial responsibility and prioritize needs over wants.

Tune in to learn how to prepare for the school year while staying on budget!

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In this milestone episode, Robert Metzger steps back as his daughters, Divine and Journey, take the lead for the first time. They engage in an insightful conversation with David Delisle, the author of the children's financial literacy book The Golden Quest: Your Journey to a Rich Life.

Discussion Points:
- David's Motivation: Delisle explains his reasons for writing The Golden Quest and his mission to educate children about financial literacy.
- Building Healthy Money Relationships: Tips on fostering positive financial habits and mindsets in kids.
- Understanding the Value of Money: Practical advice for teaching children about money management and appreciation.
- Addressing Financial Mistakes:  Guidance on how parents can discuss their financial errors with their children and use them as learning opportunities.

Join Divine and Journey as they explore the journey to a rich life with David Delisle, providing valuable insights for both parents and children.

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In this episode of Family Abide, join us as we delve into the significance of Easter and Lent in our lives, and how understanding and controlling our wants can lead to better financial decisions. We explore the power of discipline, especially in managing finances, and discuss the implications of introducing financial responsibility to children, including the idea of a 6-year-old having their own debit card.

Tune in as we wrap up with exciting news: Divine and Journey will be taking a more active role in interviewing guests in our upcoming shows, promising insightful discussions and fresh perspectives. Don't miss out on this enriching episode!

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In this episode, we explore the Financial Word of the Day: "Budget" Join us as Divine and Journey create their Christmas lists, and discover the art of prioritizing needs over wants. Listen in real-time to the thought process of children making choices, managing expectations, and understanding that the most meaningful gifts typically aren't found under the tree. 

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Welcome to Family Abide Podcast! Today we revisit the Financial word of the Day "asset,"  During today's show we talk about what Divine and Journey did for summer and how the new school year is coming along.   We also explore how a lost tooth can become a surprising asset. 

Divine also gets an opportunity to discuss her wants and needs, and together we develop a plan to purchase something she wants.   She develops an understanding of her own value, and how that empowers her toward getting a Nintendo Switch.  Hear heartwarming tales of kids and parents benefiting from conversations about faith, family, and finances.  Join us for this brief but captivating journey into the world of unexpected assets, and coming-to-age discussions.  It's a reminder that sometimes, even the smallest things can hold great value.

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Today's discussion is with a dynamic minority female entrepreneur, and visual & graphic artist, who has developed an online custom brand RaRa By Rashida Cotton.  Rashida customizes items such as shoes, paintings, clothes, bags, cell phone cases, grad caps, furniture, hats, etc.   In addition to online order, she recently opened up her own physical storefront in Baltimore, Md. 

On today's show, she talks about the transition from a secure government job to walking in her passion as an entrepreneur and artist.  She also talks about not being scared to grow out of her comfort zone of painting on canvas to finding joy in painting on whatever the customer requires to bring their vision to life and optimize her revenue streams. 

You can find her at
https://www.rarabyrashidacotton.com/
on IG @rarabyrashidacotton
on X @uloveshida

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Have you ever heard of anyone praying to be average? I recently had this conversation with my wife @charities.notes and it brings up a good conversation around the Abundance versus a Scarcity mindset.  Every morning we say the prayer of Jabez and it highlights 4 major concepts about an Abundance Mentality 

• That God would bless him.
• That God would enlarge his territory.
• That God's hand might be with him.
• That God would keep him from evil.

We talk about the  4 elements of abundance, how they contrast with a scarcity mindset, and what we would do if our children told us they prayed to be average.

Full Prayer of Jabez

Oh, that You would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain.

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