The rhythm of life has currently changed for a period of time. It is important that we make wise choices during this season. Our choices will determine whether we grow producing fruit and flowers in the garden of our life or allow weeds and thistles grow in our lives and so curtail healthy fruit and flowers.
At this time of isolation, there can be stress and loneliness. We need to give people our support, connecting with them, being loving towards them.
How we deal with comparative isolation depends to an extent on our character. If we are introverts we may well be naturally comfortable but if we are more extrovert we may struggle. Regardless of our chief character traits the key aspect is our personal response to the situation.
We may choose to lock ourselves away - looking away from others rather than looking to help others. Alternatively, we may say “I’ll make the most of this unusual season to help others.” Captain Tom Moore’s outlook and response is a wonderful example of a 99 year old who decided to help others. He decided not to just sit in his armchair for the season, but instead to walk lengths of his garden to raise money. What started as a small gesture exploded into something massive. He used the time to benefit others; he showed determination; he purposed it. We need to be personally encouraged by this.
Being isolated can be a good thing. Stepping back from social engagements means that we can learn, discover and develop. We can choose to look positively, or look negatively; at things being good, or being bad.
Romans 8:28 (NIV) tells us “And we know that in all things, God works for the good of those who love Him.” As Christians, we ought to be expecting God to work good out of the current situation. If we do, the challenge is to see how can we serve and partner with God to achieve the positive outcomes.
Many famous people produced some of their best works when isolated, for example, Shakespeare, Sir Isaac Newton, Van Gough, Lord Byron and of course St Paul. St Paul wrote several of his letters to the churches whilst he was in prison or under house arrest (Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians and Philemon). John wrote Revelation whilst he was in exile, in punishment, on the island of Patmos.
During this isolation time, what could God be working out in us? Do we want to purposefully draw closer to God? James 4:8 (NKJV) says “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” God is waiting for us to want to move closer to Him.
This season of separation has four rooms….the classroom (where we may learn new things); the greenhouse (where something could grow in our lives); the waiting room (where we may develop patience) and the Pressure Cooker (where flavour can be developed if the ingredients are correct).
Romans 5:3-5 (NIV) tells us “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us”. Depending on our characters and whether we look positively or negatively at situations, God can work in us during these times.
However, where there is ill-feeling or negativity, then the ingredients and conditions in all of the room of our lives will not be good. We can choose positively to deal with issues. We can and should choose to take issues to God, to let Him in, to voice any cracks apparent to our loving God. God doesn’t want to put a plaster on the problem. He is our God who heals. God has also supplied us with servants within the church to partner Him in helping us - those in leadership. So, when life gets tough, we can choose to speak to our pastors, core leaders or connect group leaders. Let us not be alone. Let us keep connected. Let us ensure this season produces good things in each of the rooms of our lives!