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Family Whisperer: Dr. Louise Stanger on Transforming Recovery with Compassion and Boundaries

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In this episode of Finding New Waters, we are joined by the renowned Dr. Louise Stanger, acclaimed interventionist, author, and family coach. Known as the “Family Whisperer,” Dr. Stanger shares her groundbreaking approaches to addiction recovery and family dynamics, including her innovative “Change Agreement” methodology. With decades of experience working with high-acuity families, Dr. Stanger discusses the critical role of boundaries, compassion, and systemic change in achieving lasting recovery. She also reflects on her personal journey of resilience and how it has shaped her dedication to helping others heal.

  • [00:00] Introduction: Welcome and overview of the episode.
  • [01:00] Meet Dr. Louise Stanger: Her career journey and passion for family interventions.
  • [04:00] The Power of Boundaries: Why boundaries are essential in recovery and how to establish them with love.
  • [08:00] Change Agreements: Dr. Stanger introduces her unique approach to aligning families and loved ones during recovery.
  • [12:00] Trauma-Informed Care: How her personal experiences of loss and resilience have informed her methods.
  • [18:00] Family Mapping: The process of creating a “portrait” of the family dynamic to guide intervention and treatment.
  • [24:00] Collaborative Recovery Models: The importance of teamwork among families, professionals, and treatment centers.
  • [30:00] Writing as Advocacy: Dr. Stanger’s books and their impact on recovery education.
  • [36:00] Closing Thoughts: Advice for families and how to connect with Dr. Stanger.
    1. Boundaries and Compassion: Dr. Stanger explains why setting boundaries is an act of love that creates space for healing.
    2. Change Agreements: Aligning families and loved ones around shared goals for recovery.
    3. Family Mapping as a Tool: Using visual storytelling to understand and address family dynamics.
    4. Personal Resilience: How Dr. Stanger’s experiences with trauma have fueled her mission to help others.
    5. Tailored Recovery Solutions: The need for individualized approaches to treatment and support.

      6. Dr. Louise Stanger
      Acclaimed Interventionist, Family Coach, and Author
      Dr. Louise Stanger is a licensed clinician, interventionist, and the founder of All About Interventions. Known for her innovative approaches, including the “Change Agreement” and family mapping, Dr. Stanger works with high-acuity families navigating substance use and mental health challenges. She has authored multiple books, including Falling Up: A Memoir of Resilience and The Definitive Guide to Intervention. Her upcoming book, Reflections on Aging from the Sunset Marquee, explores the intersection of wellness and aging.

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