Why do men retreat in relationships and why does it so often happen at home?In this episode, we sit down with Cody Jefferson to uncover the real reason men pull away—not from a lack of love, but from misalignment, broken trust, and environments that no longer feel safe to land in. We explore masculine identity, feminine peace, polarity, and the quiet ways contempt, control, and unmet expectations erode intimacy over time.This is a grounded, faith-rooted conversation about:• Why high-performing men withdraw• How identity (“I am”) precedes behavior• What men actually need to lead well• The role of a woman as peace, safety, and support• How trust is broken—and how it’s rebuilt• Why God is calling both men and women to release the need to be rightIf you are navigating partnership with a driven man…If you’re a woman longing to rest without losing yourself…If you’re a man who wants to lead without losing your soul…This conversation will meet you.———Subscribe to our channel:@FanintoFlameCoWays to Work with Us⚡️ FREE INTRO CALL: ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/⚡️ 2:1 COACHING (Peak Performance): ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/peak-perf...Connect with UsIG: ➡︎ @ellie_bt & @britleyannListen to the Fan Into Flame Podcast➡︎ YouTube: @FanintoFlameCo➡︎ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/68BlvA2...Question for you:Where have you been trying to be right instead of being at peace?About Fan Into Flame🔥 Identity before performance🔥 Somatic + Spirit-led transformation🔥 Order, embodiment, and obedience#fanintoflame #relationships #masculinity #femininity #polarity #faith #leadership #godaboveall

In this episode, Brianna, Ellie, and Britley share the raw truth about marriage, biblical roles, and the power of sanctification. From childhood wounds to kingdom purpose, they reveal how God’s Word—not feelings—became their foundation. A must-listen for anyone navigating faith, purpose, and covenant.

🔹 How unresolved childhood patterns impact your marriage

🔹 The truth about submission, sanctification, and spiritual leadership

🔹 Why God’s Word must be your filter—not culture or feelings

 Connect with Brianna Flores 

• Explore her work + free resources: HERE

• Follow on Instagram: @briannaleannflores

  
  

  
  

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In this powerful and vulnerable conversation, Britley and Ellie open up about their real-life struggles with body image, self-worth, and the hidden battles so many silently carry. They share how true healing didn’t come from perfection or performance—but from encountering God’s truth and learning to see themselves through His eyes. If you’ve ever battled shame, comparison, or insecurity, this is the video you didn’t know you needed.

The 5-part Forgiveness Practice: www.fanintoflame.co/forgive

Listen now and take your first step toward freedom. ➡️

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Question - What’s the silent battle you’ve been fighting that no one knows about? Share in the comments below: ↓

About:

⚔ Britley and Ellie get real about hidden body image battles.

⚔ Healing started when they let God in.

⚔ If you’re silently struggling, this is for you.

#BodyImageHealing #FaithAndIdentity #ChristianWomen #SilentStruggles #HealingInChrist #GodlyConfidence #InnerHealing #ChristianGrowth #TestimonyTime #BritleyAndEllie #fanintoflame

Graham is a bestselling author, digital entrepreneur, and founder of multiple 7-figure businesses. With over 700,000 YouTube subscribers across all channels and a globally ranked podcast, his message reaches thousands—but his mission is clear: to help believers build businesses that glorify God and set them free.

What makes his story powerful isn’t just the numbers—it’s the obedience behind them. This episode will remind you that you don’t need to hustle harder… you need to listen deeper.

• How God led Graham from burnout and uncertainty to launching a business that aligned with his calling

• The sacred rhythm of pivoting—how to embrace God’s invitation to evolve, shift, and birth new ideas for new seasons

• Why YouTube is one of the most powerful platforms for Christians with a message

• The power of embodying your God-given identity in your digital brand

• How Energy Audits help you work with clarity, not chaos

This is more than business—it’s about building from a place of wholeness, obedience, and unapologetic alignment with your purpose in Christ!

 Connect with Graham

• Follow him on YouTube: The Graham Cochrane Show

• Explore his work + free resources: grahamcochrane.com 

• Follow on Instagram: @thegrahamcochrane 

Interested in joining HELD: A 3-month container for women of God to go from scattered to streamlined and expand their capacity for growth, abundance, and connection?

Learn more HERE or Message us on Instagram 

@britleyann

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A call to rise, rebuild, and radically surrender—with none other than Victoria Washington.

Victoria is a powerhouse mentor, speaker, and founder of The House of Wealth Embodiment®, whose life was completely transformed after walking through bankruptcy and encountering the extravagant provision of God. What should’ve shattered her became the blueprint for her bold, biblically-rooted movement to help women embody wealth, mission, and faith like never before.

Fan the flames of your calling, courage, and Kingdom capacity with Victoria Washington!

In this transformational conversation, you’ll discover:

• What it means to truly surrender your business to God's blueprint—not just spiritually, but strategically.

• How to rediscover your voice in Christ after seasons of silence, shame, or self-doubt.

• Why “when God builds it, no storm can break it” isn’t just a cute saying—it’s a business model.

• The difference between hustle culture and holy obedience.

• How money is deeply spiritual—simply a tool for the exchange of value, skills, and assets in alignment with your God-given purpose.

• How to shift from striving to standing in your spiritual authority.
  

 Connect with Victoria:

• Grab her book Holy Yes: https://iamvictoriawashington.com/unbranded

• Follow her journey: @iamvictoriawashington

Interested in joining HELD: A 3-month container for women of God to go from scattered to streamlined and expand their capacity for growth, abundance, and connection? Learn more HERE or Message us on Instagram 

@britleyann

@ellie_bt

- What is a wilderness season?

- Why is there a period of isolation?

- If we went back in time to the start of our wilderness season, what are the things we wish we would've known?

- How to avoid getting stuck in your wilderness season?

- How God will redeem and multiply what feels like is being taken from you in this season?

Stay tuned for the prayer at the end for anyone feeling like they're in their wilderness season.

HELD:

A 3-MONTH JOURNEY TO SOFTEN INTO YOUR HEART, DEEPEN IN FAITH AND STEP CONFIDENTLY INTO YOUR GOD-GIVEN PURPOSE.

www.fanintoflame.co/HELD

Book a call if this is what you've been looking for

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Connect with us on IG

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True femininity

How we’re preparing to be married before we’re married (the embodiment walk)

Emotional capacity when a relationship gets tricky 

Submission, blowing belief, and praying for your man 

Romantic connection practice to do with your husband

HELD:

A 3-MONTH JOURNEY TO SOFTEN INTO YOUR HEART, DEEPEN IN FAITH AND STEP CONFIDENTLY INTO YOUR GOD-GIVEN PURPOSE.

www.fanintoflame.co/HELD

Book a call if this is what you've been looking for

⁠https://calendly.com/d/ck23-3qr-t5v/held-discovery-call⁠

Connect with us on IG

@britleyann @ellie_bt

In this powerful episode, David Carpenter and Jacob Valdellon sit down with Britley and Ellie to discuss faith, purpose, and the journey to building a life that’s rooted in God. The conversation dives deep into how each of them left behind their past lives, found new purpose, and embraced the mission God placed in their hearts. Britley and Ellie share their transformational journeys from New Age spirituality to a Christ-centered life, leading to the founding of their ministry, "Fan Into Flame."

Throughout the episode, they talk about the power of obedience, letting go of the past, and fully surrendering to God's plan. They also discuss the importance of creating spaces for faith-based mentorship and community, guiding others to a life of spiritual freedom, purpose, and joy.

From the foundations of scripture like 2 Timothy 1:6-7, to lessons learned through seasons of wilderness and faith, each story reflects the incredible ways God shapes us for His mission.

Don't Miss Out!

This episode will inspire you to lean into faith, let go of past struggles, and step into your purpose with boldness. If you're ready to embrace your calling and find community, be sure to like, subscribe, and share this message with others who need encouragement. Join us on this journey and stay connected with us on social media. Let’s fan the flame together!

⁠⁠Connect with Britley ⁠⁠

⁠⁠Connect with Ellie⁠⁠

Bill shares a powerful story of his father’s miraculous encounter with the Holy Spirit—a moment that transformed his family’s faith journey and planted seeds for Bill’s ministry. From there, we dive into the heart of the conversation: the importance of building your own relationship with God, not just relying on someone else’s faith.

We also explore:

How to stay spiritually alive and avoid complacency after profound encounters with God.

The shift in spiritual warfare—from battling darkness to focusing on Christ’s light.

Practical wisdom on discernment and staying anchored in your identity in Christ.

Learn more about Bill here:

https://billvanderbush.com/

Connect with Britley ⁠⁠

⁠⁠Connect with Ellie⁠⁠

www.fanintoflame.co

2 Timothy 1:6-7