Fashionably Late

This week we delve into the complexities of identity, particularly around pronouns and non-binary experiences, emphasizing the importance of communication in relationships. We also touch on the fluidity of gender, the challenges of transitioning, and the significance of emotional connections in lesbian relationships.

In this episode we spent some time chatting with Jen & Margy, a queer couple that came out late in life. We learn about how they met, how they have merged their lives and how coming out had/has an impact on their careers in education.

Let's chat gender roles, shall we? You wouldn't think that a WLW relationship would have "gender roles", but oddly enough- there has been enough discussion surrounding this topic that in this episode we talk about it! How do gender roles, or the lack thereof, play a part in our relationship vs our previous relationships? What do we think about the assumptions we see online regarding fem vs. masc "roles"? Does being nonbinary play a part in it? We answer all the questions and so much more!

There were lots of questions flood in through TikTok surrounding coming out late in life- so we spent an episode answering those questions! From how we came out to our ex-partners, to the status of our divorces and more. If you have questions of your own DM us on Instagram @ fashionably_late_lesbians . We appreciate each and every one of you! Oh, and happy 100k on TT to Kirby!

Em is finally back home and being away from each other this past weekend brought some old feelings to surface. Tune in to hear about some of the realizations we both had while apart from each other and why we thrive so much when together. We also spill all the deets surrounding Em's new exercise program and her plan to get Kirby yolked!

In this episode we read about the three types of anxious attachment in lesbian relationships from the book Lesbian Love Addiction written by Lauren D. Costine. We discuss what type of attachment style we categorize ourselves and each other in our relationship and dive in to our strengths vs. our weaknesses.

Brighid! She's more than just a friend.. she's family, as well as one of our biggest supporters and top listeners! In this episode we play a fun game where Brighid asks Kirby & Em questions about their relationship and each other. We recap the weekend we had together (Em and B met for the first time!) including karaoke and good laughs! Such a fun episode! We love you, Brighid!

Lesbian TT drama, therapy, 2 year anniversaries, new ventures and so much more! Come catch up with us.

Em made it back to Wisconsin in one piece and after taking a week off we have lots to catch you all up on! Things are settling into place and now that summer break is coming to an end we are finding our new routine all over again. As soon as you get used to something, it changes, right?

We're back in a hotel - in Colorado, showing up for you in real time, after a 20 hour drive across the country... and we are EXHAUSTED. Tune in to hear how the roadtrip went, how the kid are adjusting to the changes, and what our next moves are when it comes to our brand, our travels, and our relationship in general.