In this Father Figure Formula Fireside Chat, we sit down with Oscar Peña — active-duty military instructor, father of three daughters, and host of the “Daughtered” podcast. Oscar opens up about the early years of fatherhood he describes as rough, overwhelming, and full of gaps he didn’t know how to fill. From losing patience to missing key moments with his older girls, Oscar shares the honest truth about realizing he was physically present but emotionally absent — and how the weight of that realization during the COVID lockdown became the turning point that reshaped his entire approach to being a dad. Together, we explore the power of presence, the courage it takes to apologize, and the intentional habits that help fathers reconnect with their children.
Oscar’s story is a reminder that growth is possible at any stage, and that becoming the dad your children deserve starts with humility, awareness, and a willingness to change. Tune in for a conversation that challenges, encourages, and equips fathers to show up with purpose, resilience, and heart.