In this episode of Father Like the Father, DJ speaks directly to the tired dads—the ones doing their best, but quietly running on fumes.The pressure to lead your home doesn’t stop just because you’re drained. But maybe the solution isn’t grinding harder… maybe it’s plugging into a greater source of strength.DJ opens up about what changed when he finally slowed down, stopped pretending, and let God refill what life had emptied.—Scripture:“Those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength.” – Isaiah 40:31—Weekly Challenge:Set aside 10 minutes this week just to sit with God.No agenda. No noise. Just listen.Write down one verse, one thought, or one prayer that comes out of it.Your strength doesn’t come from your hustle—it comes from your source.—🌱 Join Rooted in BrotherhoodIf you’re a dad trying to lead well—while carrying more than you let on—you’re not alone.We built Rooted in Brotherhood, a free Facebook group for faith-filled dads, to help men grow, heal, and lead from a place of rest, not burnout.Click the link below to join us.We’re building something stronger—together.https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/

In this episode of Father Like the Father, Alec shares a moment many dads overlook—a quiet, rainy day—and what it revealed about mental health, fatherhood, and faith.As we enter Men’s Mental Health Month, it’s time we stop pretending we’re fine and start learning how to breathe again.You weren’t meant to carry everything alone.Alec shares a story, a challenge, and a reminder that sometimes the rain isn’t a storm—it’s a reset.—Scripture:“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28—Weekly Challenge:When it rains—or when you feel overwhelmed—pause for 10 minutes.No phone. No distractions.Pray: “God, help me rest in You. Remind me that I don’t have to carry this alone.”Then reach out to another dad. A simple check-in can make all the difference.—🌱 Join Rooted in BrotherhoodA free Facebook group for faith-filled dads who are growing together, finding rest, and leaving a legacy.Click the link below. Don’t do this alone.We’re building something that lasts.https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/

This episode is raw, real, and long overdue. As we kick off Men’s Mental Health Month, We sit down to unpack the silent struggles so many dads face.From childhood trauma and suicidal thoughts to the pressure of fatherhood and pretending to “hold it all together,” this conversation dives deep into what it means to be a man, to feel broken, and to find hope.You’ll hear stories of loss, anger, anxiety, ADHD, depression—and how showing your kids emotions might be the bravest thing you do. If you’ve ever felt like you're not enough, not wanted, or completely alone… you’re not. This episode is for you.👇 Resources and community 👇🌳 Join our free dad community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhood_unscripted/📢 Don't forget to subscribe and leave a comment with your biggest takeaway. If you’re struggling, reach out—we mean it.

In this powerful episode of Father Like the Father, DJ calls out one of the most common struggles dads face—but rarely admit: comparison.We compare our parenting to the dad on Instagram, our leadership to the guy at church, our patience to the highlight reels of others... and end up feeling like we’ll never be enough.But here’s the truth: God didn’t ask you to copy someone else—He called you to lead your home with what He gave you.DJ unpacks Galatians 6:4, shares a raw moment from his own life, and offers a challenge every dad needs this week.—Weekly Challenge:Every time comparison creeps in, speak this out loud:“I’m the dad my kids need. God gave them to me for a reason.”Write down one thing you’re doing well as a dad.Stick it on the fridge.Let that truth speak louder than the scroll.—🌱 Join Rooted in BrotherhoodIf you’re looking for a community of faith-filled dads who are growing together and want to leave a legacy for their kids, we’ve got something for you.It’s called Rooted in Brotherhood—a free Facebook group where we talk faith, fatherhood, and becoming the men our families need.Click the link below and come be a part of it.Don’t do this alone. We’re building this together.https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/

In this episode of Father Like the Father, DJ opens up about the struggle every dad knows too well—frustration.Whether it’s the chaos at home, pressure from work, or just one of those days, frustration can take over before we even realize it. But as faith-filled fathers, we’re called to lead differently.DJ shares a powerful story, scripture from Galatians 5:22–23, and a challenge that could change the atmosphere of your home this week.Weekly Challenge: Pause. Breathe. Pray: “God, help me lead with grace, not anger.”👇 Join the movement.💬 Are you leading your home—or letting your emotions lead you? Comment below.—🌱 Rooted in Brotherhood – Join our free Facebook community for faith-filled dads:Click the link below and come be a part of it.Don’t do this alone. We’re building this together.https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/

In this raw and real episode, it's just Alec and DJ—no guests, no script, just a deep dive into what’s been happening behind the scenes of Fatherhood Unscripted. They open up about personal struggles, growth as dads, the journey of launching their new minisode series Father Like the Father, and the heart behind the Rooted in Brotherhood community.Topics include:Why we created this podcastLetting go of perfection in fatherhoodBalancing faith, fatherhood, and real lifeThe launch of Rooted in BrotherhoodLiving with gratitude and graceAnd yes… DJ shaved his beard for TV 🤦👉 Join our free Facebook community: Rooted in BrotherhoodConnect with other dads who are walking the same path—faith, family, and becoming better men every day.➡️ Click here to join : https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/

In this week’s episode of Father Like the Father, Alec gets honest about the pressure dads face, the voices we listen to, and the one voice that actually matters—God’s.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough, this 5-minute reset is for you.

📖 Scripture:
John 10:27
“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.”

🧠 What You’ll Hear:

• How to recognize when shame is speaking louder than God

• A moment when Alec broke down, then heard the Father’s voice

• A simple, silent challenge that could reset your whole week

⚔️ Weekly Challenge:
Take 10 minutes this week with no noise, no phone, no distractions.
Ask God,
“What do You want to say to me as a father right now?”
Then listen. Write it down.

Welcome to Episode 1 of Father Like the Father – a weekly series from Fatherhood Unscripted.Today, Alec shares a powerful reminder for every dad who feels like he’s falling short: your presence matters more than your perfection.God doesn’t expect flawless—He wants faithful. This 5-minute challenge will reframe the way you see your role as a father.📖 Scripture:Deuteronomy 6:6–7“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”⚔️ Weekly Challenge:Look your child in the eyes this week and say,“I thank God for making me your dad. You’re a gift I don’t take lightly.”🌱 Join the Brotherhood:Don’t father alone. We’ve built a free, private space for dads to grow in faith, leadership, and brotherhood.👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/

In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ are joined by Devon and Justin from the Imperfect Dads podcast for a raw, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation on modern fatherhood.We cover it all—from navigating parenting struggles and planning for the future (yes, we’re talking vasectomies) to chasing kids through summer chaos and laughing through the mess. We also dive into the story behind the Imperfect Dads rebrand and why building a community of real, present dads matters more than ever.🎙 What You'll Hear:Real-life parenting stories from four dadsHow music, faith, and community shape fatherhoodRebranding and staying authentic as creatorsThe joy (and stress) of being present with our kids

What if everything we believed about retirement was backwards?In this powerful conversation with CPA and father of four Truman Weston, we unpack the idea of Reverse Retirement—a reimagined life where dads work less when their kids need them most and prioritize presence over possessions.🔥 Truman shares:His wake-up moment walking the same late-night office stairs as his dadWhy society pushes dads toward burnoutThe True Income Equation: a holistic view of wealth including time, health, and relationshipsReal-life decisions like keeping an old van to buy freedom instead of statusHow to start optimizing your life for what really matters—nowIf you're a dad feeling the pressure to grind, this one’s for you.