Fathering Our Future

Social media is a wonderful thing but it can create some problems for us if we are not careful. It is so easy to see friends or other people getting likes, loves, and positive comments on their posts and for us to be motivated to achieve the same goal. If that is your intent, you've missed the most incredible thing right in front of you and you've fallen into the trap of the comparison game.

It was reported on August 25, 2022, that a man in Minnesota beat his ex-wife to death in front of three of their children. When asked what was going on by the police he responded, "I don't feel right." 

We carry the responsibility to display masculinity to our children. Losing control and never addressing our problems is not masculine. It is time that we drop this macho mask that says everything is fine, and we get the help we need. We were not made to do this alone. We need help in life and it is time to stop waiting.

Every dad imagines what their child will be like and they never expect there to be complications. The reality is children are born with disorders regularly. My friend, Greg Peters, has a daughter born with a genetic disorder called CdLS (Cornelia de Lange syndrome). He shares the emotional weight, the challenges, the ups, and the downs of his journey. Spoiler alert: this is not a story of tragedy. It is a story of encouragement.

You'll have your methods, you'll have your faults, and people will criticize you because of them. We cannot eliminate criticism but we can control how we handle and deal with it. I'm going to share three tips that can help you overcome dad shaming and keep you on mission to be a better dad every day.

What are we doing as dads? I want men to love being dads, for dads to strive to be better dads everyday, and for us to form a community of dads so that together we can better father our future. The truth is, we are already fathering our future whether we know it or not. I hope we will do it with purpose and that is why I want to share the mission today.

There are a lot of ideas floating around about adoption. Some think it is very expensive, some think the process is incredibly difficult, and some simply do not know what to think. Ryan Hanlon, the President and CEO of the National Council for Adoption, joins me to answer questions about adoption and to bring clarity to a topic we might be overcomplicating. You can learn more about Ryan and the National Council for Adoption by visiting: www.adoptioncouncil.org.

My five year old son recently lashed out at in anger. As a dad, you know it is incredibly easy to allow your emotions and impulses to determine how you respond to situations. However, if you can be in control of you, you can make a remarkable impact on yourself and your family.

There are numerous children who do not know what it is like to have a family. While not every family may be in a place to adopt, some might be in a place to foster. John Farris and his wife opened their home and fostered children for 16 years. He joins me to share his incredible journey and to help us understand the difference we can make in a child's life.

Do you think you are faithful to your kids because you have not walked out on them? Do you think you are faithful to your spouse because you have not had an affair? If that is how you view faithfulness, allow me to broaden your horizons and help you gain a fuller understanding of what it means to be faithful.

You've had your heart warmed by the video of the adopted son receiving his first birthday cake, but now you get to hear the story that made it all possible! Joe Walker shares how he and his wife, Jamie, came to adopt Abraham and James despite all of the challenges stacked against them. This is truly a story of what love looks like.