“Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt,” Mark Twain supposedly quipped. No, it’s that very common human tendency, that none of us are free from, where instead of facing a reality that’s unpleasant, painful, hard or unpleasant about ourselves, we deny it. Sometimes we are conscious of our denial as an outright lie to protect or promote ourselves but more often it’s an unconscious psychological mechanism that does its work of the distortion of reality behind the scenes so we don’t even recognize it as false. It’s almost like we fall asleep to reality, to the truth of the matter, and have no motivation to awaken from that dream.