I have officially declared 2022 my villain era. It's time! It's actually been a long time coming and I'm so glad to be stepping into this space that I've been avoiding for so long. Often time we are scared of ruffling feathers, of falling out of social grace, of being the villain or doing 'villainous' acts because we do not want to run the risk of being un-accepted, disconnected from, and socially outcasted. We have faced social rejection before and it hurt our younger selves, and so now we may do all that we can in order to stay in others' good graces in order to feel good about ourselves. The thing is, I have learned there is genuinely nothing I can do that will *not* make me the villain, and over the years i have continued to question, what exactly even makes a villain? For a lot of us growing up, those villainous acts that got people outcasted, we grow up and realize that they were just boundaries. They were just tactics someone used in order to flex their emotional maturity and autonomy, and the people who made us believe they were in the right for outcasting the individual, were actually in the absolute wrong.  This is what this episode is about. In 2022, we are adopting our own villainous acts to assert our boundaries and allow ourselves to gain more and more emotional autonomy each and every day. It's a new era, and its time to make YOU the main character. Happy villain-ing ;) 😈 

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