Nancy and I wanted to come on to explain some changes we're making to the show's format going forward. We feel like we lost some of our mojo over the past few years and want to regain our power by telling our full story, from the beginning up until now. There will still be amazing guests, but we also want to share the ups, downs, laughs and tears from our relationship and family. We hope it inspires others going through tough times.

Episode Highlights:

[00:07] Poking fun at Nancy's sick voice and a surprising squirrel visit.

[02:05] Podcast format change announcement.

[02:43] Recently feeling like we lost some of our power and value after traumatic events.

[04:48] Share our goal to tell our full story to inspire others who are feeling stuck.

[06:26] Describe feeling trapped in sadness before realizing our power never left.

[07:44] Discuss learning to accept and adjust to loss.

[09:23] Promise to still have amazing guests on sharing success and failures.

[10:00] Nancy jokes about wanting to get over her cold before recording.

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I had an enlightening talk with Bree about the importance of forgiveness in healing and moving forward. We discussed the freedom that comes with forgiving those who have hurt you, even if they can’t reciprocate. Bree shared her journey with an abusive mom and how becoming a parent herself opened the door to forgiveness. We explored how forgiveness is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.

Episode Highlights:

[02:14] The weight lifted after forgiving an abusive mom.

[05:20] Did her mom understand the damage she caused?

[06:16] Bree’s mom's excuses for her behavior.

[07:22] Reaching out to my absentee dad for forgiveness.

[08:30] Getting sent away after acting out as a teen.

[10:26] Why do the hurt ones extend forgiveness?

[12:39] Acting out for attention from Bree’s dad.

[14:42] Barely finishing high school amidst the chaos.

[16:02] Moving to Colorado with Bree’s new husband.

[18:30] Having a colicky newborn with no support system.

[20:17] Finding jobs quickly out of necessity.

[22:35] Struggling mentally amidst becoming a new mom.

[24:00] The value of going through hard times together.

[25:39] Recognizing the cycle repeating.

[27:10] The need for continuous forgiveness in marriage.

[29:39] Wanting kids to know the good in their Grandma.

[33:08] Forgiveness is an ongoing process, not one-time event.

[35:12] Be patient in your own forgiveness journey.

[37:40] Still fighting despite the challenges.

[49:21] Take it easy on yourself through the forgiveness process.

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In this raw, explicit podcast, we interview our coworker Beto about his life-changing experience training for and completing the Chicago Marathon. Beto takes us through his journey from the moment a casual invitation planted the seed to him suddenly signing up on a whim to run his first-ever marathon. We get an inside look at the mental and physical rollercoaster of marathon training and race day as someone doing it completely on his own. Beto shares invaluable lessons on overcoming self-doubt, the struggle of commitment, why we sometimes need to lean on others when we feel most alone and how to stay focused in the present moment during an enormously grueling task. His story serves as inspiration that no matter how impossible a goal seems, taking things one step at a time can lead to crossing unimaginable finish lines.

Episode Highlights:

[1:18] Beto explains his spontaneous decision to sign up for the Chicago Marathon despite no prior running experience.

[3:30] Beto realizes the months of grueling training required and starts having doubts.

[4:10] Beto begins a 6-month training plan, fitting in solo runs before and after work.

[11:09] Beto opts to train alone instead of joining the marathon group at church.

[12:58] Beto struggles through hot summer 10+ mile training runs, reaching mental and physical breaking points.

[17:28] Beto considers quitting but persists to avoid letting down donors and finish what he started.

[21:08] Beto explains the mistake of doing a 20-mile training run downtown in the blistering heat.

[24:06] Beto’s training partner and support system unexpectedly pulls out of running the marathon.

[25:47] Beto starts the Chicago Marathon surrounded by others but realizes he'll ultimately be alone.

[31:46] On race eve, Beto’s partner confirms he is officially not running, leaving Beto emotionally devastated.

[34:09] Up to 40,000 fans lining Chicago streets contrast Beto's isolated mental state on race day.

[35:01] Beto gets a wave of pre-race adrenaline and bursts off the starting line.

[43:51] Beto remains lost in his thoughts, blocking out fatigue and hitting the wall around mile 13.

[47:42] Beto disassociates around mile 19/20, forcing his mind to focus on positivity.

[50:06] Beto passes struggling runners late in the race but stays motivated to cross the finish line.

[56:25] Beto's constant mental rollercoaster mimicking life's ongoing ups and downs.

[59:29] Beto reflects on the enormity of finishing something he previously thought impossible.

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In this episode, Nancy I got into how fast time flies as you get older. Seems like just yesterday we were kids, now the holidays are already here again. The years go by quicker when you're stuck in repetition instead of learning and experiencing new things. I need to start doing more exciting stuff if I want to slow down Father Time.

That led into how we get aggravated at people not meeting our expectations. But our expectations are just something we made up in our heads. People are not going to understand where we're coming from if we don't take the time to understand them. We're all going through our own sh*t every minute of the day. I can't expect someone to just automatically know what I want them to do. Gotta be more specific in my communication if I want different results.

My perspective and experiences aren’t universal. If I keep treating people based on my expectations instead of who they really are, I'm just going to end up pissed off and pushing them away. Time to rethink this egocentric nonsense.

One example is how I thought I was raising my son to be happy and healthy, the opposite of my childhood. But then we were told he's traumatized and I couldn't understand it. Had to realize he's his own person who went through things I'm not aware of. My expectations of being a good dad didn't match up with his reality. That was a tough pill to swallow but it helped me become more open-minded.

Overall, we got to stop assuming everyone should inherently understand us and do things our way. They’re on their own path. Best thing is to share, listen and try to understand each other's perspectives. Easier said than done when you been through real shit and had to figure life out on your own. But staying closed off with expectations, assumptions and ego will just lead to more pain. Time to peel back the layers and connect as human beings.

Timeline Summary:

[00:50] How time passes quicker when you get older.

[02:22] Backing cars into each other shows being on autopilot.

[04:02] Our expectations have alienated people.

[07:13] Getting aggravated at people not meeting expectations at work.

[13:19] Building walls to avoid dealing with emotions.

[15:37] Expectations lead to disappointment.

[18:58] Can't expect people to inherently understand us.

[20:24] Didn't see my strictness as expectations.

[22:33] Really noticing these patterns now.

[27:08] Importance of human connection.

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In this solo episode, I’m going on an impassioned rant about my personal frustration with Christians who claim to be open and accepting but fail to follow through on their word. Listen to me vent about the hypocrisy of Christians who preach openness but refuse to have authentic conversations with people different from themselves. I’m challenging Christians to walk the walk, not just talk the talk. This unfiltered monologue will give you a raw look into my true feelings.

Timeline Summary:

[00:26] The backstory on our "Me Mondays".

[02:00] Reaching out to guests with great convos, but they ghost.

[04:52] The ironic thing is the ghosters are Christians!

[06:48] The meaning of our show is being open and authentic.

[08:44] Rant against Christian hypocrisy - claiming openness but judging others.

[12:30] This podcast is based on respecting differences, but Christians are too scared.

[15:11] Plea for real, authentic Christians to come on the podcast.

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Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse, rape, drug abuse, and suicidal ideation that some listeners may find disturbing or traumatic. Listener discretion is advised.

Our guest faced immense hardship and trauma starting from a very young age. By her mid-teens, she had endured more than most do in a lifetime. Her powerful story illustrates the human capacity for resilience and redemption. Listen as she recounts her journey through unimaginable obstacles and how she reclaimed her power. Though the road was long, she offers hope and perspective for others traveling their own difficult paths. This profound conversation explores the depths of trauma and healing.

Timeline Summary:

[02:39] A confusing diagnosis at a young age.

[08:31] Another life-altering diagnosis the following year.

[13:26] When the unthinkable started happening.

[16:55] The moment the truth was revealed.

[21:36] New struggles emerge in middle school.

[25:16] Immense pressures young women face.

[25:56] A period of feeling good before tragedy strikes.

[29:24] Blindsided by someone she trusted.

[32:52] Spiraling downward before deciding to turn life around.

[39:25] The seminar that changed everything.

[43:12] Where to turn to start the healing process.

[44:50] Giving back to others on a similar journey.

Resources:

Pathways to Successful Living Seminar - pathwaysseminars.com

Kaylee's journey demonstrates that no matter what hardship you face, you have the power to take control back and transform your life. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Your support helps more people find this podcast and know they're not alone. 

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Nancy and I reflect on our recent road trip and how saying "yes" to new adventures sparked powerful insights. We talk about the power of saying YES to unfamiliar experiences. Pushing past our comfort zones brought out our playful sides and challenged us to live more authentically.

Timeline Summary:

[01:05] Discussing how Nancy talked much more in the last episode.

[02:30] What was at the end of the rainbow?

[03:20] This road trip was a shift in attitude, finding the power of saying “yes” to more.

[05:50] Crossing sketchy bridges in Niagara Falls had my anxiety ramped up and how I related it to life.

[10:59] Our trip reminded us not to get stuck in the robotic rut of everyday life. 

[12:00] We share how we carve out sacred time for "me" and "we" during the week.

[15:50] Our newfound "power of yes" has spread to our designated we-time on Wednesdays.

[18:10] Nancy opens up about really listening to my feedback.

[21:10] Letting go of control and just living in the moment was so freeing on this trip.

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Get transported to gorgeous fall scenes, cozy coffee shops, and mouthwatering meals on this journey through Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, and upstate New York. From covered bridges to mountain summits, we bring you along on an unforgettable autumn adventure.

Timeline Summary:

[00:18] Taking an unplanned road trip and embracing spontaneity.

[02:07] Disappointed by lack of charming coffee shops in Indiana.

[03:29] Finding hidden covered bridge gems in Ashtabula County, Ohio.

[07:14] Meeting a man whose grandfather built the historic Olin Covered Bridge.

[13:18] Discovering that Google Maps isn't always accurate.

[14:39] Amazing Mad Max restaurant in Eerie, PA.

[16:34] Driving into Adirondack Park and seeing incredible fall colors.

[18:11] Having a "spiritual moment" surrounded by beautiful autumn hues.

[23:15] Climbing Lookout Mountain on all fours near the summit.

[27:48] Shoutout to Blue Line Coffee in Old Forge, NY.

[29:23] Arriving in the former Winter Olympics village in Lake Placid.

[30:15] Eating a heavenly steak at Jimmy's 21 restaurant in Lake Placid.

[33:24] Driving up Whiteface Mountain and reaching the summit.

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Nancy and I are popping in from the Adirondack Mountains to remind you how important self-care and self-love are. We are going on a hike, and we will talk to you guys soon!

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In this raw and authentic episode, Nancy and I have an honest conversation during an evening walk about the pain of feeling estranged from our son and granddaughters. We open up about the lessons we’ve learned through this difficult experience, like living more in the present moment, realizing we were good parents because we raised a strong leader, and finding the positives that came from the negative. Even when family relationships get complicated, focusing on personal growth can help you move forward.

Timeline Summary:

[00:20] Taking an evening walk to have an authentic, deep talk.

[01:14] Recalling the quality time spent with our granddaughters before the rift.

[02:25] The pain of estrangement comes in many forms.

[03:01] Our situation is different, but pain is pain.

[04:53] Cherishing every moment now in case it’s the last time we see them.

[06:06] Being present in each moment is a big lesson learned.

[07:43] Having more meaningful conversations by being authentic.

[09:45] We’re focused on being truthful now.

[10:31] Living in the moment encompasses it all.

[10:47] Realizing we were good parents despite our flaws.

[11:33] Our son had to make some tough decisions.

[13:09] As parents you want your kids to tell you anything.

[13:36] He told us off and that takes balls.

[14:48] Our son is finding himself.

[15:59] This gave us momentum to move our lives forward.

[16:33] Forgiveness comes in all kinds of forms.

If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!