At 37, Raman was told her egg quality matched a woman in early menopause. The recommendation was donor eggs. She said no. Six years and three more cycles later, at 43, she gave birth to her second daughter with her own eggs, on her exact planned delivery date.
In Episode 377 of the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Rosanne Austin, JD sits down with former client Raman for the full 45 minute interview. The 12 year journey. The 7 IVF cycles. The devastating twin pregnancy that turned into the most agonizing decision two parents will ever make. The miscarriage at 15 weeks she nearly bled out from in front of her 5 year old daughter. The hospital bed moment she almost walked away. And the single conversation with her husband that changed everything.
If you are a physician, attorney, executive, surgeon, founder, or any version of the high-achieving woman who has built her life on intelligence, grit, and force of will, this episode is the reset. Raman was used to winning everywhere except the one place that mattered most. She refused to let that be the end of the story.
What you will learn in Episode 377:
✨ The exact words she used to tell her husband to drop the timeline pressure he had been putting on her cycles for years
✨ Why she refused the donor egg recommendation at 37 and what she did instead
✨ How she processed the loss of one twin while carrying both through the third trimester
✨ The role of structured mindset work and a community of high-achieving women in surviving a 12 year journey
✨ The single Rosanne line that became Raman’s anchor: “Your mind will give up way before your body ever will.”
✨ How a high-achieving woman holds deep gratitude for the child she already has and the undeniable desire for another, without guilt
✨ What changed when Raman joined the Fearlessly Fertile Method and continued in Outliers through the transfer and pregnancy
Featured in this episode:
✅ Unexplained infertility diagnosis at 31
✅ A twin pregnancy and an impossible decision
✅ Open-heart surgery for a 7 month old daughter
✅ A miscarriage at 6 weeks and a second at 15 weeks
✅ A doctor at 37 recommending donor eggs
✅ The conversation with her husband that ended the timeline pressure
✅ A frozen embryo transfer at 42
✅ A second daughter born at 43, on the exact planned delivery date
About the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast
The Fearlessly Fertile Podcast is the top 1% globally ranked fertility podcast hosted by Rosanne Austin, JD. Former prosecutor. Five time author. Founder of the Fearlessly Fertile Method, the methodology referenced in top fertility clinics in New York, San Francisco, St. Louis, and internationally, and grounded in 39 plus peer-reviewed studies on the mind-body fertility link. Rosanne combines the analytical rigor of a trial attorney with the lived authority of a woman who conceived naturally at almost 44 after years of treatment failure. She is not a therapist. She is not a cheerleader. She is the mentor who tells you the truth with enough love that you actually hear it, and then gives you the exact tools to do something about it.
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