"Everything is wrong with my spouse!" So often when we look at our marriages, our greatest tension lies in our ability to focus only on our spouses' negatives and their need to change. It is like staring at a piece of salad stuck in the teeth of the person across the table from

us and not being able to focus on anything he's saying because all we can see is salad! In marriage, we become so fixated on what is wrong with our spouses that we only see their broken places and we miss the positive areas where they need affirmation! Shifting from a place of negativity to honest positivity can the be the difference of life and death in a relationship. On Sunday, we will talk about creating a Family Resolution of Affirmation, recognizing that our spouses aren't all wrong or all terrible and learn to find the areaswhere we can encourage, support and affirm!