Continuing our Lenten journey of figuring out faith with Peter, in this message Pastor Eric reflects on Peter's hunger to learn; his willingness to stay open, keep showing up, and learn--even after last week when Jesus rebuked him quite strongly.
What is it that Peter is hungry to learn about in this scripture? Something many of us are hungry to learn about--and struggle with: forgiveness. What role does forgiveness play in our relationships? What's the relationship between forgiveness and accountability? If you forgive, then does that let someone off the hook of facing consequences for their actions? Are there "nonviolent" consequences that do not include verbally, emotionally, or physically assaulting someone? If you forgive, does that mean you won't be angry anymore? And if you're still angry, does that mean you haven't forgiven?
What's clear is that: while authentic forgiveness--the kind Jesus models and invites us into--is powerfully transformative and life-giving, distorted versions of forgiveness--the kind common in our society--are powerfully destructive.
So: what is forgiveness and what role does it play in healing and repairing our relationships? This message is Pastor Eric's attempt to answer that question.