What if your legacy started with a funeral, and a kilt? In this episode of Feedback, Nick Alfano unpacks the incredible journey of Matt Theriot; a husband, father of seven, and financial advisor whose life was forever changed by tragedy. When a friend’s sudden death left him questioning his own impact, Matt turned personal pain into a powerful mission, and did it all wearing a kilt.

This isn’t just a story about business growth. It’s a story about becoming a different man, one who leads his family with vision, runs his business with purpose, and shows up in every room with undeniable conviction. From launching the Highland Scholars Fund to moving his family into a dream home, Matt shares the transformation that happened when he stopped chasing dollars and started chasing legacy.

You’ll hear the origin story of the kilt, the purpose behind the 3% rule, and the powerful conversations he now has with his sons about purpose over profit. You’ll also hear hard truths about emotional regulation, feedback in marriage, and breaking generational cycles, all while Matt navigates the challenges of leading a growing team and raising seven children.

5 Key Takeaways:

Legacy often starts with loss, and leads to mission.

The 3% rule: how giving can drive more growth than keeping.

Feedback at home hits different, learn to regulate or repeat the cycle.

Wearing a kilt became Matt’s symbol of purpose and visibility.

Leadership begins when you stop doing it all and start empowering others.

“Every new client is another potential scholarship.” – Matt Theriot

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What happens when a man burns his old life to the ground, owns every mistake, and rebuilds from raw truth? In this unfiltered, deeply personal episode, Nick Alfano sits down with Eric Olbrembt to explore the tension between authenticity, empathy, and the cost of being fully, unapologetically yourself.

Eric shares the powerful story of his fall into addiction, his moment of clarity in rehab, and how owning his past, not avoiding it, unlocked his present strength. The conversation dives into the struggle of communicating hard truths without being misunderstood, navigating friendships inside coaching relationships, and how being real means risking rejection…but gaining true transformation.

This episode covers:

Eric’s raw and redemptive journey from drug-fueled chaos to 15+ years of sobriety

Why empathy is more than emotion, it’s a tool to build real trust

The spiritual cost of people-pleasing and watering down truth

What happens when you stop performing and start showing up

The fine line between coaching, friendship, and honoring your own boundaries

Key Takeaways:

Empathy starts with genuine curiosity, not judgment.

Sobriety is about serving others, not just saving yourself.

“Authenticity” without self-awareness is just ego in disguise.

You teach people how to treat you by how you honor your word.

The truth is uncomfortable, but it’s also the only path to real freedom.

“You’re never gonna meet someone who says, ‘That guy’s full of shit.’ You might not like me, but I’m real. And I’ll die on that hill.” - Eric Olbrembt

🎙️ If this episode shook something loose in you, hit subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear this. Then journal: Where in your life are you not honoring your word?

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Are you building a body that looks good… or a life that performs well?

In this episode of Feedback, Nick Alfano welcomes longtime friend, mentee-turned-partner, and performance-driven entrepreneur Cole Taylor. Cole’s journey will challenge how you think about health, fitness, identity, and even your faith. Once a shredded bodybuilder and D1 athlete, Cole opens up about his radical shift: from chasing the mirror to chasing meaning.

What happens when a high-level achiever trades six-pack abs for six-hour runs? When shredded isn’t enough, and performance becomes the goal? Cole shares the truth behind what it took to prepare for a 100-mile ultra, why he now sees fitness as fuel for fatherhood and business, and how real transformation always starts with feedback, and exposure.

This isn’t just a podcast about workouts. It’s about identity. Discipline. Community. Vision. And the hard truth that most men won’t face: If you’re not intentionally exposing yourself to challenge, the world will do it for you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why aesthetics without performance is a dead-end road

How Cole trained for a 100-mile race in just 10 weeks (after years as a bodybuilder)

The four “V’s” of identity shift, Cole’s formula for real change

How to hire the right coach (or build the right team) using core values

Why exposure, accountability, and community are non-negotiables for growth

“Growth cannot happen in my own silo. I have to get feedback so I can grow. But I also can’t heal without it.” - Cole Taylor

If this episode stirred something in you, don’t let it fade. Subscribe, share it with a brother who needs this message, and take a moment to journal: Where am I coasting? What part of me needs exposure? Then act. 

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In this episode of Feedback, Nick Alfano sits down with speaker and coach Cody Jefferson; a man whose voice commands the room, but whose presence makes you pause. What starts as a conversation about fatherhood, marriage, and leadership quickly becomes a deep dive into what it means to live with purpose, peace, and integrity in a world addicted to performance.

Cody challenges the mainstream idea that men need to “find their purpose” and offers a radical truth: your purpose isn’t a single path; it’s the way you show up for your family, your faith, and your future. Together, they explore how real power comes not from being seen, but from being still.

Key Takeaways:

1. Purpose is not a destination; it’s how you live every day.

2. The real work starts when you stop proving and start becoming.

3. Your marriage, body, and beliefs are the foundation of your leadership.

4. Most men sabotage success to avoid becoming someone new. 

5. Peace is built. Peace is earned. Peace is the real flex.

“Purpose isn’t something you chase. It’s something you carry.”

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In this raw and unfiltered solo episode of Feedback, Nick Alfano delivers a masterclass on emotional self-awareness, subconscious programming, and breaking destructive patterns—especially under pressure. With intense real-life examples, from relationship fights to business stress, Nick unpacks how our reactions under pressure aren't random; they’re programmed. And until we learn to pause and reprogram, we’ll stay stuck at the same level—in our marriage, business, and personal growth.

He introduces the powerful PHOC framework—Pause, Hover, Observe, Choose—a step-by-step system that gives men the tools to override their default settings and consciously choose how they show up in hard moments. Whether you’re trying to level up your marriage from a 7 to a 10, or stop self-sabotaging in your business, this episode gives you the exact mindset shift and method to make real change stick.

Key Takeaways:

• Pressure always exposes your default program—aka, your subconscious conditioning.

• Most men drift through life reacting instead of choosing; this is how to interrupt that drift.

• The PHOC framework helps you take control in heated moments instead of flipping out.

• You don’t need more hacks or strategies; you need to fix the operating system running the show.

• Showing up differently is the only way to get different results—in marriage, money, and mindset.

If you're tired of reacting the same way and want to become the kind of man who builds a legacy, not just a life—this is the episode that changes the game.

→ Ready to break your cycle and upgrade your programming? DM Nick or apply for his next live event. It’s time to lead your life, not survive it.

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In this powerful episode of Feedback, host Nick Alfano welcomes guest George Hayworth, combat veteran, National Guard member, and founder of Elite Sentinel Coaching. Together, they dive into the raw truths about modern masculinity, personal accountability, and the leadership crisis that is crippling men in their relationships, businesses, and personal lives.

Key Takeaways from This Episode:

• Men Are Failing to Lead at Home: If your daily routine consists of outsourcing decisions to your wife, you’re forcing her to carry your weight while you sit back. Leadership isn’t just about work—it’s about being the man your family needs.

• Brotherhood and Accountability: The fastest way to change your life is to surround yourself with other men who hold you to a higher standard. Isolation breeds weakness; brotherhood breeds transformation.

• Breaking Free from Programming: Most men are trapped in patterns instilled by childhood, past failures, and societal conditioning. The only way out is through personal ownership and relentless self-improvement.

• How to Reclaim Your Masculine Power: From making decisions to setting boundaries to truly pursuing your wife, this episode offers real, actionable steps to stop being passive and start leading with purpose.

📲 Subscribe and share this episode with a man who needs to hear it. If you’re ready to transform your life, take ownership, and lead with strength, this conversation is your wake-up call.

“Your wife doesn’t need another child; she needs a man who leads.”

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In this episode of Feedback with Nick Alfano, Nick sits down with a man whose journey is nothing short of transformational—Taylor Ammons. Taylor isn’t just another guest; he’s a pillar in The Program, a beacon for other men striving for growth. His story is one of reckless living, addiction, near-death experiences, and ultimately, redemption. From a conventional Christian upbringing to drug-fueled chaos, run-ins with the law, and near-fatal encounters, Taylor’s past reads like a script from a movie. But his turnaround? That’s the real story.

For years, Taylor sought validation in all the wrong places—partying, alcohol, and destructive relationships. It wasn’t until a sobering diagnosis and a divine series of events placed the right people in his life that he made the life-altering decision to walk away from addiction. Today, he’s three years sober, leading a thriving roofing business, and proving that it’s never too late to rewrite your story.

Key Takeaways:

• The wake-up call that made Taylor realize his choices were leading him to an early grave.

• How changing your environment and inner circle can be the catalyst for transformation.

• The power of feedback and why most men avoid it—when it’s exactly what they need.

• Why owning your past and embracing vulnerability is the ultimate sign of strength.

This is more than just a comeback story—it’s proof that true masculinity is found in courage, accountability, and faith. If you’re stuck in self-sabotage, this episode is your call to action.

🔥 If you’re ready to stop making excuses and start changing your life, listen now! 🚀

“Your past is not a prison sentence—it’s the foundation for your growth. You can either let it weigh you down or use it to fuel your future.”

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In this episode, Nick Alfano and special guest Brad Lea dive into the origin of the infamous F-word, exploring its purported historical roots and debating whether the story behind “Fornicate Under Consent of the King” holds any weight. From there, the conversation takes a deeper turn, unpacking the principles of abundance, relationships, and the art of giving without expectation.

Listeners will discover Brad’s unique take on the oft-repeated phrase, “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know,” and why it’s actually both. Through humorous anecdotes and hard truths, the duo explore how intentionality and value can redefine relationships and amplify impact.

Key takeaways from the episode include:

• The surprising origins (or myths) behind some of history’s most colorful language.

• Why “adding value” in relationships requires action, not just words.

• How the law of abundance impacts not just wealth, but mindset and relationships.

• The ethics of promoting controversial industries like gambling—where does personal responsibility meet societal impact?

• The profound effect of giving without keeping score and why it matters for personal growth.

Whether you’re looking to build stronger connections, unlock a new mindset, or simply enjoy an engaging dialogue filled with humor and raw honesty, this episode delivers it all.

Don’t miss this fascinating blend of history, personal growth, and ethical debates. Hit play now, subscribe for more candid conversations, and share your biggest takeaway with us on social media! Let’s keep the dialogue going.

“Impact isn’t about mic-drop moments; it’s about crafting journeys that truly change lives.”

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In this episode of Feedback, host Nick Alfano sits down with special guest Nick Hiter to explore the art of creating disruption and redefining impact in business and life. Recorded in the heart of Nashville, this dynamic conversation highlights the importance of intentionality, human connection, and redefining success in today’s fast-paced, tech-driven world.

Jim and Nick dive into why disruption is more than a buzzword—it’s a catalyst for radical change. Together, they discuss the pitfalls of superficial impact, the power of granular focus, and how aligning with purpose leads to lasting transformation. Jim shares powerful anecdotes, including lessons learned from hosting high-stakes conferences and navigating the challenges of building meaningful community in an increasingly automated world.

Key Takeaways:

• The true meaning of impact: influence, change, and intentionality.

• Why disruption is critical for growth and how to implement it in your business.

• The importance of staying consistent and persistent in pursuing your purpose.

• Practical strategies for fostering human connection in a world dominated by technology.

Whether you’re an entrepreneur, leader, or someone seeking to make a difference, this episode will inspire you to challenge the status quo and lead with impact.

Ready to disrupt your industry and leave a lasting legacy? Subscribe to Feedback and join Nick Alfano and Jim Morris as they redefine what it means to make an impact. Don’t forget to share this episode with someone who’s ready to elevate their game!

“Disruption is not about breaking things; it’s about breaking through the ordinary to create the extraordinary.”

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In this episode of Feedback, Nick Alfano takes a deep dive into the science of brain waves and their impact on personal growth, success, and reprogramming the subconscious mind. Many believe that affirmations are the key to transformation—but unless they penetrate beyond the conscious mind into the subconscious, they’re nothing more than empty words. Nick reveals why 95% of daily decisions are made on autopilot, and how most people unknowingly sabotage their own success.

Listeners will discover the five major brain wave states—Delta, Theta, Alpha, Beta, and Gamma—and how they influence everything from creativity to stress levels. More importantly, Nick breaks down why Theta is the holy grail of transformation, the brainwave state that allows for deep subconscious programming, habit formation, and breaking through mental barriers.

Key Takeaways:

• The subconscious mind makes 30,000 decisions per day—yet most people are unaware of its influence.

• Affirmations only work if they reach the subconscious, which requires bypassing the prefrontal cortex.

• Theta brain waves (4-7 Hz) are the key to reprogramming subconscious beliefs and unlocking hidden potential.

• Simple hacks, like utilizing hot water on the pineal gland in the morning or listening to binaural beats, can help access Theta and increase absorption of new ideas.

• The subconscious is designed to resist change—learning to work with it rather than against it is the key to lasting transformation.

Nick delivers actionable strategies to reprogram limiting beliefs, integrate affirmations effectively, and step into a more powerful, aligned version of yourself. If you’re tired of setting goals but never seeing real change, this episode is a game-changer.

Ready to break through subconscious barriers and rewire your mind for success? Subscribe now and start implementing these life-changing hacks today!

“Affirmations are useless unless you get them beyond the conscious brain and into the subconscious mind, where they actually stick.” - Nick Alfano

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