Feeling Fifty Shades

Why would we encourage you to embrace UNCOMFORTABLENESS when being comfortable feels so right? In this segment we will talk about why we feel "discomfort" and the benefits of actually pushing ourselves outside that box of comfortableness.  Yes, those feelings of anxiety, fear, and failure aren't enjoyable to experience, but they shouldn't hold you back from experiencing life.  Take a little time out of your day to understand the importance of accepting the world of uncomfortableness; it might just make you want to take a step outside your comfort zone. 

Not everyone has the same parenting style, but we all fall, in some way, into one of three parenting types: The Tiger, Dolphin, or Jellyfish.  And as our children grow, we discover our parenting style will often intertwining with other parenting categories.  During this episode we describe and discuss what each parenting style represents.  You may agree, or disagree with our translation, and that's okay; after all we are just two women/mothers giving their feedback on what parenting type has been a part of our world.  So tune in and we'd love to hear whether you are a Tiger, Dolphin or Jellyfish!

Top pet peeves, and traits desired in our partners are just a couple of the questions asked during this little battle of the game. During this segment we reveal, utilizing a series of questions, if it's possible to predict the men's answers and vice versa.  Who do you think nailed or failed this test?  Tune into to this week's episode as we play "Y vs. X ".   The outcome might surprise you! AND don't forget to give us your feedback, suggestions on future topics, and please press follow! We'd love to hear from our listeners!!!

Do you yearn to alter the behavior and/or characteristics of someone in your life?  Maybe it's the desire to change their eating habits, the clothes they wear, or perhaps it's the friends they bring into your world.  Whatever the reason, the urge to "change" that individual is often all consuming.  On this segment we will consider the questions "Can we truly change others"? And, "Is it a yes or no answer"? So press the play button and hear our discussion, your initial response to those two questions might be altered by the end of this episode!

The Dance of Self Sabotage is being performed in everyone's lives.  Whether it be as a child, a teenager, or adult. Whether at home, at the workplace, in school or social activities; we all experience that negative, reverberating, voice in our minds that dictates our current and future plans.  This dance has a very sneaky way of stunting personal and professional growth which often prevents us from obtaining those things in life that matter the most.  This segment will share how we have experienced "The Dance of Self-Sabotage" and ways to create a new dance that will promote positivity and a feeling of self worth!

We  often pass up on the good times to give into the okay, if not the bad times because we have this the terrible fear of missing out.  Why do we feel the need to be a part of EVERYTHING, or practically everything,? Is it because we know it "might" just be the best time ever, or are there other reasons? We bring the younger generation into our segment to weigh in on what FOMO means to them, and how it has effected their decision making.  Take a moment and listen to the younger  and the "older" generation, because regardless of age, or gender, FOMO creeps it's way into everyone's world!

The thought of bringing that tiny miracle into the world is so exciting, the countdown is often unbearable.  Then, finally after long nine months this amazing little person enters the world and you become a parent.  You vowed that this beautiful child would not "control" who you are, physically and emotionally.  After all, you had read the best parenting books, listened to all the advice from those around you, and maybe even attended a few insightful classes! You got this, right? If it were only that simple.  We've experienced the "Invisibility" of motherhood, it can really suck, BUT maybe we can prevent it from sucking the life out of you.  Tune into this episode and discover how to squash the Invisibility of motherhood! It is possible!

Masks, gloves, physical distancing, the list of rules for the current world we live in is daunting, to say the least.  It has affected our personal and professional world in so many ways.  It has royally created a Cluster "F" to the normalcy we are used to experiencing on a daily basis.  This episode is a bit different. Tune in as we take some time to lighten things a bit. No, no one topic segment this week, just some questions on various topics that get you learning about us and maybe even reflecting on what your responses would be if asked.  Will we agree, disagree or agree to disagree? Guess you'll have to listen to find out!

Covid-19 may have us physically distancing but it doesn't stop this duo from speaking their minds. 

How often do you say something, NOT because you "mean" it or "feel" it, but because you want to fit into the current situation? Do your words ensure that what is spoken doesn't create conflict, and is accepted by the majority of those in your presences? If you're nodding your head YES, then this episode is for you! Drea and Lisa expose the reasons why we dare not speak our truths and how to cut the bullshit.  When we choose to participate in a conversation it shouldn't be filled with fluff and statements we don't mean.  On the contrary, your words should reveal what YOU genuinely feel. So hit the play button and open you mind to decluttering what you say and make moving your lips matter!

Work, family, children, extra curricular activities, the list of how we starve romance goes on and on and on.  It doesn't have to take money, but it does take "time" and "effort" to prevent starvation from attacking the romantic aspect your relationship.  This segment provides some inexpensive and simple ways to make sure your intimacy doesn't get neglected, regardless of your economic situation.  Listen in, and you'll walk away with at least one idea that can be utilized to feed that romantic part of your life!