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Feeling Is Believing/ 感受是信念


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Feeling Is Believing/ 感受是信念
We commonly say seeing is believing. But for many of us, feeling is believing. Our feelings lead to beliefs that are more compelling than beliefs arrived at by other means. For example, we may believe that if we feel afraid, there must be dangerous. We believe the persons we are angry with are wrong. If they weren’t wrong, we wouldn’t be angry with them. Unfortunately, beliefs based on feelings are often inaccurate. It’s only in recent decades that we’ve recognized and validated that feelings are a powerful attention system in our brain. They are responsible for creating the visceral (出自內心深處的) responses, that, in turn, are transformed into thoughts and beliefs to help us make sense of what we experience at the moment, and for future reference. Thus, as far as our beliefs are concerned, feelings provide conscious and unconscious experiences which we view our world. Take an intimate and loving relationship as an example, if we believe that we are unlovable or flawed, such a feeling, indeed, would let us avoid closeness with others. Unless we have positive feelings in our minds, we won’t build good relationships among other people. Therefore, we really have to cultivate and flourish great feelings in our everyday lives.
 每一次情緒(感受)的發生,都攜帶著很多訊息與提示,情緒本身是中性的,而我們的感受,卻有正負的分別。負面的情緒/感受,會幫助我們理解哪些信念是不適合的;正面的情緒/感受,則讓我們看見,我們對什麼事情是有熱情的、有共振的。Paul Ekman (美國心理學家)將情緒分成6種:快樂(happiness)、驚訝(surprise)、恐懼(fear)、厭惡(disgust)、憤怒(anger)、悲傷(sadness)。我們最根本的情緒,是快樂與恐懼,其他的情緒都是由此延伸出來的。情緒的產生,與我們個人的信念有關。我們生活裡的一切快樂,是我們自己的正面情緒/感受創造的。同樣地,我們生活裡的一切問題,也是我們自己的負面情緒/感受創造的。所以解決問題的方法,是轉變自己的情緒/感受。科學實驗中證明,美麗的水結晶,是美好的感受創造出來的,如果懷著憤恨的心,即使說我愛你,也結不出美麗的結晶。這是情緒/感受創造了實相,是我們人的情緒/感受,創造了這個水結晶的水花。
    許多時候,我們的思想是忠於自己的情緒/感受的,尤其是沒有說出口的事情,或是我們內在心裡深處的想法。這意味著,我們千萬不能口是心非,因為我們的情緒/感受,會創造出實相。當我們創造了所有自己想要的人事物時,那是多麼自信有力的感覺啊!任何時候,我們都可以有最適合自己的人事物等,包括財富,家庭,幸福,愛情等,出現在我們面前。然而,最重要的是,我們要用最真心的情緒/感受去創造。這個世界的本質,永遠是無限豐盛的,我們每一個人都可以擁有自己想要的一切,都可以達成自己美麗的理想和成就,只要我們好好地忠於自己最真實的情緒/感受就好。感受就是信念,感受創造實相,我們不必用吸引力法則,吸引外物給我們,我們自己就可以自我創造,而且永遠豐盈這美妙的實相,都要端看我們內心深處的情緒/感受有多好、有多真。



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