In Episode 18, Alonzo Banx brings together a familiar and lively panel — Heather, Cookie, Noah, Blake, and Lana — for a deep, candid conversation about what it really means to feel secure in polyamory. The discussion explores how love languages, trust, and communication shape emotional safety, and how security isn’t static — it’s something partners build, test, and rebuild over time.

From redefining “rules” as evolving agreements, to balancing freedom with safety, and learning to love from a place of divine yes instead of fear, this episode is one of the most emotionally intelligent PolySoCal roundtables yet. It’s a heartfelt mix of vulnerability, humor, and truth about what it takes to build lasting connection in multi-partner relationships.

Alonzo,  Heather, Cookie, Noah, Blake, and Lana