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Ever catch yourself saying, “I’m stuck”… when what you really mean is “I don’t want to make the decision”? Yeah. Same.
In this episode of Breakthrough with Mallory and Julie, we’re lovingly kicking you in the mindset and calling out one of the biggest personal development traps: waiting for the “right time,” the “perfect circumstances,” or a magical burst of motivation to show up and carry you like a queen on a chaise lounge.
Spoiler: it’s not coming.
Mallory breaks down why “stuck” is usually just avoidance in a cute outfit (hello, victim mindset), using a straight-from-HR example that hits hard: the Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) and why it’s not a trap door, it’s a last chance to level up. Julie brings the heat with self-abdication (aka giving away your power), procrastination truths, and the real reason you “don’t have time” (hint: your thumb + TikTok are in a situationship).
We talk about:
- Why inaction is still a choice
- How to stop the all-or-nothing spiral and find Option C
- The mindset shift that turns “I don’t have resources” into “How can I do this with what I have?”
- Why progress beats perfection every single time
Your challenge at the end? Simple: What’s ONE action you can take today to move your life forward?
Because you’re not stuck.
You’re just one decision away.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
- How “feeling stuck” is often decision avoidance
- Why victim mentality feels comforting (and why it costs you everything)
- How to reclaim control when anxiety is running the show
- The “resources reframe” to stop saying “I can’t”
- How to stop procrastinating by improving prioritization
- Why small actions create momentum fast
Key Takeaways (3 quick hitters)
- Stop prioritizing easy — start prioritizing progress.
- Look for Option C. You usually have more choices than you’re admitting.
- Not choosing is still choosing. And it’s rarely the choice you want.
If this episode called you out in the best way, follow the show, share it with a friend who keeps saying “I’m stuck,” and take ONE action today. Small moves create big breakthroughs.
Check out www.breakthroughwmj.com for more on the podcast and Mallory and Julie!
Follow the show: Breakthrough with Mallory and Julie
- Instagram/TikTok: @breakthroughwmj
- Mallory: @malloryherrin (Instagram) | @malloryherrinx (TikTok)
- Julie: @julieburch
- Julie Burch Speaks: julieburch.com
- Herrin HR: herrinhr.com | +1 800-607-7787
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By Julie Burch and Mallory HerrinSend us Fan Mail
Ever catch yourself saying, “I’m stuck”… when what you really mean is “I don’t want to make the decision”? Yeah. Same.
In this episode of Breakthrough with Mallory and Julie, we’re lovingly kicking you in the mindset and calling out one of the biggest personal development traps: waiting for the “right time,” the “perfect circumstances,” or a magical burst of motivation to show up and carry you like a queen on a chaise lounge.
Spoiler: it’s not coming.
Mallory breaks down why “stuck” is usually just avoidance in a cute outfit (hello, victim mindset), using a straight-from-HR example that hits hard: the Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) and why it’s not a trap door, it’s a last chance to level up. Julie brings the heat with self-abdication (aka giving away your power), procrastination truths, and the real reason you “don’t have time” (hint: your thumb + TikTok are in a situationship).
We talk about:
- Why inaction is still a choice
- How to stop the all-or-nothing spiral and find Option C
- The mindset shift that turns “I don’t have resources” into “How can I do this with what I have?”
- Why progress beats perfection every single time
Your challenge at the end? Simple: What’s ONE action you can take today to move your life forward?
Because you’re not stuck.
You’re just one decision away.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
- How “feeling stuck” is often decision avoidance
- Why victim mentality feels comforting (and why it costs you everything)
- How to reclaim control when anxiety is running the show
- The “resources reframe” to stop saying “I can’t”
- How to stop procrastinating by improving prioritization
- Why small actions create momentum fast
Key Takeaways (3 quick hitters)
- Stop prioritizing easy — start prioritizing progress.
- Look for Option C. You usually have more choices than you’re admitting.
- Not choosing is still choosing. And it’s rarely the choice you want.
If this episode called you out in the best way, follow the show, share it with a friend who keeps saying “I’m stuck,” and take ONE action today. Small moves create big breakthroughs.
Check out www.breakthroughwmj.com for more on the podcast and Mallory and Julie!
Follow the show: Breakthrough with Mallory and Julie
- Instagram/TikTok: @breakthroughwmj
- Mallory: @malloryherrin (Instagram) | @malloryherrinx (TikTok)
- Julie: @julieburch
- Julie Burch Speaks: julieburch.com
- Herrin HR: herrinhr.com | +1 800-607-7787