Neville Goddard said, "To try to change circumstances before you change your imaginal activity is to struggle against the very nature of things." 

Through the years, I've searched for and tried just about everything to give myself value, to make myself happy. Back when I was a child, I went to war with food. But dropping 70 pounds didn't fix anything. My circumstances didn't change until I changed my concept of myself. 

Just because blood, sweat, and tears are what it took to reach our goals in the past doesn't mean it always has to be like that. 

"Observe your inner talking and remember your aim. Do they match?" - Neville Goddard

I recorded another version of what I discussed in Can You Smell That because it was cutting out. Since I love talking about this stuff, I just went ahead and did a whole new one.