Before you ever speak to someone, ignore them, or write them off, you've already made up your mind about them. Pastor Bobby Bosler argues that our relationships don't break down over words or actions first — they break down over thinking first, in the quiet, unspoken judgments we make about people before we ever open our mouths. Working through Romans 12:16, he shows how pride quietly ranks people in our minds and calls us instead to think fairer, think lower, and think again.