Matthew 18:21-35 June 5, 2022 AM.
True Christians have been forgiven a mountain of sin against God and
have been welcomed into God’s family as justified saints. God’s
children act like God their Father does (Matthew 5:48; Philippians
2:15; 1 John 3:1-2, 10, 5:2). God is forgiving. Therefore, we should
be too. We have been forgiven so much more sin than we can
count or list; it is relatively nothing for us to forgive an offender
against us. Look at the examples of Christ (Luke 23:34) and
Stephen (Acts 7:60).
This means that we always live with an attitude and heart ready to
forgive because we understand our own wickedness and the great
pardon we have received. When an offender comes to us and asks
us to forgive, that readiness is exercised by actually forgiving the
person. Thus, the offended comes together with the offender and
a “transaction” of forgiveness is finalized.
The professing Christian who does not understand this and/or does
not practice it, thus demonstrates that they do not truly
understand the forgiveness of God. He or she apparently did not experience that forgiveness, or else would automatically
understand the need to practice real forgiveness.
The practical challenge for us is not to intellectually understand what
we have studied today. The difficulty is to do it when we have been
hurt. When our hurt consumes us, we demonstrate selfishness and
not love for others. This is when our heart gets clogged up with self
and cannot extend forgiveness to another. This is not godly.
In another side of this, we need to know how to apologize and ask
forgiveness. The two men in the story had a desperate need—huge
debt that they could not pay. They had no problem asking for the
debt to be forgiven because they understood the consequences if
they did not. We all have a similar need in our sin-debt toward
God, and our sins toward others. But the problem is pride. We do
not want to admit we are wrong. We think somehow we can avoid
paying our debt to God or that we can make the things toward
others go away with time or other clever techniques. We need to
humble ourselves and ask to be forgiven by admitting our sin to
God and to others whom we have wronged. Far better that, than
carrying around unresolved guilt all the time.