How I went from thinking women are too emotional to lead, to becoming a feminist activist and podcast host.

Listen for my journey.

And sorry no book review. That will be next week. I promise.

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Throwback to my very first episode. It has been 21 other episodes since then. Though there have been struggles, I’ve enjoyed every step of the way.

I remember my very first book review, it has really been one hell of a journey

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Yes, I am sex positive. It doesn't mean I am having sex, or I am a slut. It just means I have dissociated myself with any guilt or shame that comes with sex. Pleasure is my f*****g birthright!!!

What Oluwemimo Precious said:

I just feel women should be sex positive. We should replace shame with fear and judgement with freedom.

Women are not sexual objects, but society tricks us into believing we are. I feel like we should be able to decide what our sexual life should be like.

All they ask us to do is pledge our virginity to our non-virgin husbands (I'm not saying keeping your virginity till marriage is bad). All I am saying is pleasure is our birthright too. Personally, I don't believe my virginity is for anybody. My virginity is for me!! And when I want to have sex, imma do it because I want it.

Most girls feel guilty when they get dis-virgined or ashamed. It becomes worse when they break up with the guy.

I don't know if I am making sense, but I don't know how to say what I am feeling.

Something happened and I had to move out of my hostel. In the process of looking for a hostel, I asked my dad if I could stay alone, and he said "No". Not because I am he doesn't have the money but because "Wemimo is a girl, she can't live alone". African parents are sometimes not comfortable with giving their female children freedom because of the fear of them having pre-marital sex. However, the boys are given freedom because "they are guys".

I don't know how you see this but all I am saying is "Your sex life is your sex life, own it!!!"

Yes, I am sex positive. It doesn't mean I am having sex or I am a slut. It just means I have dissociated myself with any guilt or shame that comes with sex. Pleasure is my f*****g birthright!!!

This was a passioned rant from a listener. Take this as your sign to send me a mail about what’s bothering you.

This is the orgasm gap i talked about in this week’s episode. Can you imagine a 30% gap. Thats a lot. Women deserve pleasure too.

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This is a picture of my copy of the book. I couldn't find anyone online.

Summary of today's episode

I talked about how the book is a zero over ten. Like please don't read it. It is toxic and sexist and extremely problematic. I definitely do not recommend. Listen to find out why.

If you liked today's episode, consider sharing it.

I’m sorry there was no episode last week. I was having a bad mental health day. But I’m much better now. So here take this one with plenty of love and please subscribe to get more of my work.

Also, if you have read this book or knows someone who has let me know your thoughts in the comments.

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Hi guys, in today’s episode we discussed

* colorism

* Nigerian’s obsession with big ass

* Madona’s look at the awards show,

* plastic surgery: to do or not to do,

* I also talked about my own experiences with body shaming and my journey to radical self-love,

and so much more.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

* body positivity influencer 2

* body positivity influencer 3

* colorism article

* send me a voice mail

* the body is not an apology course

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Don’t forget to like this episode and subscribe. I’ll see y’all next week with a book review. Byeeeeeeee

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Episode summary:

In this episode we discussed Caitlin’s book and her views on pubic hair, pornography and so much more.

We answered the question of is pornography inherently sexist, are strip clubs and prostitution feminist and so much more.

If you enjoyed today’s episode do like and share

if you have any other books you would like me to discuss, leave it in the comments.

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Introduction:

In this episode we talked about how the media perpetrates the hypersexuality of men. I give various examples from different movies and unpack each statement.

This episode serves to educate listeners about the dangers of over sexualizing men.

* unpacking the statement ‘‘a man needs sex, when a man doesn't get sex, he’s off his game’’.

* The falsehood of this belief and how it reinforces harmful stereotypes.

* The negative impacts that this belief can have on self-esteem and relationship.

There is a need for a more nuanced and accurate understanding of male sexuality and desires.

I encourage you dear listener to continue this conversation and challenge harmful beliefs in your own lives and communities. If you hear something, speak up.

If you enjoyed this episode and learnt something, do like this post. You can also leave a comment about what I should talk about next.

Don’t forget to subscribe. If you want to make sure you never miss an episode of this good stuff, then it’s time to hit that subscribe button. Trust me you won't regret it. Think of it as your all access pass to all the thought-provoking discussions, mind-blowing insights and of course a little bit of fun.

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Episode summary:

* We talked about is BDSM oppressive and feminist?

* We talked about how the men in the novel don't understand the concept of consent.

* Ladies, you can't change a man. So, don't try.

* Can we really trust the men that are close to us?

What book should i analyse next. Tell me in the comments.

Share this episode with all those your friends that are obsessed with fifty shades of grey.

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asking someone out does not have a gender. Don't let propriety stop you from something beautiful.

In this episode we discuss the results of the survey. We talk about guys responses to being asked out by girls.

I really enjoyed making this episode, I hope you enjoy listening to it just as much.

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Please rate the show and leave a review. I really appreciate it. and don’t forget to follow me on Instagram. And if you have anything you'd like to share, you can send me a voicemail. BYEEEEE

P.S read Fifty Shades of Grey. It’s for next week.

In this episode we talk about an amazing book called The Visit written by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. We discuss the matriarchal society that operates in the book. We also talk about the sacrifices women make for men in today's society.

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Important News:

We are having a challenge in February, the challenge is gonna be hot hot. Follow me on Instagram to join the challenge when it starts and to get more information about it cause I’m not revealing what the challenge is about. Yet.

Merry Christmas and a happy holidays 💋💋

Episode summary : basically just appreciate women this Christmas and help out in the kitchen.

This is the last episode of the year. Till next year 8th of January. Follow us on Instagram and tiktok Feminist Inc, to keep seeing our content. Please don't forget to leave a review and or a rating if you enjoy Feminist Inc. If you have any questions or suggestions or if you just want to rant, you can send me a voice mail.

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