In this episode, Randy and Beverly dive into Rule #13 from The Couples Rulebook - Fight by the Rules. Are you ready to learn how you can use disagreements to create stronger connection in your relationship? Do you know how to de-escalate by starting with love? Listeners will learn how to use curiosity to replace defensiveness. Plus, Randy and Beverly explain how the rules in The Couples Rulebook are structured for everyone - no matter how you like to learn new things. There's also some big discounts on The Couples Rulebook right now on Amazon - whether you like the Kindle version or an old school paperback. #HeartVersusHead #FightByTheRules 

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Heart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. Or check out their relationship books: Heart Versus Head: How to Communicate and Connect When Nothing Else Works (2026) and The Couples Rulebook (2019).