In this episode, Randy and Beverly dive into Rule #13 from The Couples Rulebook - Fight by the Rules. Are you ready to learn how you can use disagreements to create stronger connection in your relationship? Do you know how to de-escalate by starting with love? Listeners will learn how to use curiosity to replace defensiveness. Plus, Randy and Beverly explain how the rules in The Couples Rulebook are structured for everyone - no matter how you like to learn new things. There's also some big discounts on The Couples Rulebook right now on Amazon - whether you like the Kindle version or an old school paperback. #HeartVersusHead #FightByTheRules 

In this episode, the hosts explore how more and more people are turning to AI for relationship advice. But is that advice any good or can it do more harm than good? Can a chatbot be useful in solving relationship communication issues? Randy and Beverly explain why AI might have a place in relationships but that place probably isn't serving as a low-budget, on-demand source of therapeutic wisdom. 

Head-led partners focus a lot of energy on being factually correct but that can seem harsh and uncaring to their Heart partner. Listen as Randy and Beverly discuss an argument they had about something that should not have been an argument. How do the little moments break connection and how can being aware of it change it? Find out on this episode of Heart Versus Head. 

Heart partners, does your Head partner roll their eyes or give you an exasperated look when your emotions start running strong? There is usually much more to "the look" than disdain, disgust, or disinterest. Maybe, they just don't understand your feelings. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore why Heads make that face and why it makes Hearts so upset. Plus, they offer some tips to get through the situations when THE LOOK appears. 

Is everything their fault? Even if it is, if you focus on fixing your partner, you'll end up wasting a lot of your energy. In this episode, Beverly and Randy explore why focusing on yourself will generally yield better relationship results. #HeartVersusHead #FixYouFirst

Heart partners, have you ever gotten mad at your Head partner for something they did IN A DREAM? This is an example of "What you said... in my head."  This week we're talking about how easy it is to make up a story that leads to an argument, even if the story hasn't happened. Why are we so quick to assume what our partner is thinking and why they're thinking it? But we're so darn wrong most of the time. If your relationship suffers from "What you said, in my head" Syndrome, you might want to listen to this episode. #HeartVersusHead 

Have you ever felt like your Head partner was hard to love? Not because they didn't deserve it but because they couldn't seem to accept it... no matter how hard you try? In this episode, Beverly and Randy examine the critical inner voice that Heads have and how it impacts relationships. If you love a Head... but they suck at letting you love them, this one is for you... and them... (and all your friends). 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the dangerous waters of broken trust. From infidelity to addiction, there are a million ways to mess up the trust in your relationship. But how do you get it back? If you and your partner have encountered a loss of trust - or just want to make sure your relationship is bulletproof - listen to Trust Me... Again. You'll see that it can be better. Not just better than it is now but even better than it was before. As long as you're both willing to dig a little deeper and be vulnerable. Trust us... you don't want to miss this one. 

Are you the Heart partner or the Head partner in your relationship? This is the episode that will give you the communication clues to discover your role. Hearts lead with everyone's feelings and Heads lead with logic and facts. It doesn't means Heads don't have feelings and it doesn't mean that Hearts can't be logical... it just means that in your relationship, you prefer to do it one way. Listen as Randy and Beverly break it down a bit.  #relationshipgoals #HeartVersusHead

In this episode, Randy and Beverly discuss how to handle the touchy subject of interactions with ex-partners, especially when kids are involved. You can't just block 'em and walk away. Whether it's scheduling custody handoffs or providing details about an important event, you're going to have to communicate with your ex and then you're going to want to communicate about that communication with your current partner. How everyone reacts in these situations will impact your current relationship. From anger to jealousy, there can be a lot of emotions involved when our mate's former mate is prowling around.