"Sometimes the knowledge of truth and how things SHOULD BE don't overcome the emotions of the heart. Recently my wife told me she doesn’t love me and hasn’t loved me for a long time. She even said she wouldn’t marry me if she had another chance." Maybe you feel hopeless like that man and you are fighting to hold on. (Hurtful statements like these are too common in many relationships.) While those words are painful to read, he will never get relief with that type of thinking.