Figuring It Out

So… I Gave It My All and Still Almost Failed 😮‍💨Growing up, we were always told that if you just work hard, everything will work out. But what happens when you do give it your all… and it still doesn’t go the way you hoped?In this new segment called Yap & Chill, we’re slowing things down and chatting about some of the lessons we’ve learned in our early 20s — the good, the bad, and the brutally honest. One of the biggest ones? Learning that sometimes, your best might not be enough to control the outcome… and that’s okay. What matters is how you move forward from it 💗---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's first-ever episode and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram:   / sippin.lemonade  FIO's Instagram:   / figuringit_out.pod  FIO's Reddit:   / hot  Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqU...

So… Are We Really Weaker Than Our Parents’ Generation? 🤔Is it true that the older generation is more tahan lasak than us? Or are we just wired differently because we’ve grown up with more comfort and opportunity? 🧠💭 This was one of the many thought-provoking questions we answered in this career Q&A episode — where we tackled your DMs, comments, and late-night overthinking.From employer POVs to employee struggles, we did our best to give both sides of the story — even if the answers weren’t so straightforward. Maybe every generation is softer… but maybe that’s because our parents worked hard to give us that softness in the first place.I don’t know… food for thought? What do you think?---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sippin.lemonade/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/figuringit_out.podReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/FiguringItOut_FIO/hot/Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqUe15hCR2LZpD5t75?si=441bbb9a9b074976Special thanks to: 🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome🪵 Acoustic Wall Panel by Sleek: https://tinyurl.com/sleekpanel🎨 Design by Atap: https://finlit.my/atapco

So...Apparently You Can Ask For a Pay Raise Just 3 Months In?! 😳💸Nobody really teaches you how to ask for a raise. And let’s be honest — just thinking about asking your boss for more money is nerve-wracking enough 😵‍💫. I always assumed you had to wait like... a year or two?? But turns out, some people start the convo as early as 3 months in 😮‍💨 (although yes, it also depends on your boss... sigh).As someone who's still figuring this whole “adulting” and “career” thing out, I needed help. So I brought in Frankie and Ai Lyn to break it down for me. When do you ask? What do you say? How do you even start the conversation without sounding greedy or ungrateful?🎙️ In this episode, we unpack the art of negotiating your pay — with real advice, awkward stories, and the mindset you actually need before walking into that meeting room.---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sippin.lemonade/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/figuringit_out.podReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/FiguringItOut_FIO/hot/Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqUe15hCR2LZpD5t75?si=441bbb9a9b074976Special thanks to: 🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome🪵 Acoustic Wall Panel by Sleek: https://tinyurl.com/sleekpanel🎨 Design by Atap: https://finlit.my/atapco

I Constantly Overthink If I’m on the Right Career Path 😵‍💫Am I supposed to be really good at one thing? Or should I try to do a little bit of everything? As someone who overthinks literally everything, I’ve asked myself this question more times than I can count — and I know I’m not the only one 🫠Whether you’re still in uni, a fresh grad, or already working but feeling stuck, this episode is for you. I sat down with Nicole (a specialist) and Ai Lyn (a generalist) to help me finally make sense of this dilemma. We talked about the pros and cons of each path, what recruiters actually look for, and how to figure out what works best for you (especially if you're feeling lost).✨ Tune in to get some clarity and hopefully feel a little less alone in this confusing career journey.----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram:   / sippin.lemonade  Instagram:   / figuringit_out.pod  Reddit:   / figuringitout_fio  Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqU... thanks to: 🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome🪵 Acoustic Wall Panel by Sleek: https://tinyurl.com/sleekpanel🎨 Design by Atap: https://finlit.my/atapco

So…Working Holiday Isn’t Just Apple Picking?! 🍎✈️I always thought a working holiday meant picking fruit in the countryside and travelling on weekends — turns out, it’s so much more than that! From paying taxes overseas to finding legit jobs outside of farms, there’s a whole side to working holidays no one really talks about 😳In this episode, we’re diving into everything you need to know before you pack your bags — including visa requirements, job types, what to expect day-to-day, and yes… how taxes work 😩---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sippin.lemonade/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/figuringit_out.podReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/FiguringItOut_FIO/hot/Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqUe15hCR2LZpD5t75?si=441bbb9a9b074976Special thanks to: 🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome🪵 Acoustic Wall Panel by Sleek: https://tinyurl.com/sleekpanel🎨 Design by Atap: https://finlit.my/atapco

So...We Answered Your Questions About Career 👀

From "How do I communicate with my boss to reduce my workload?" to "Is it okay to job hop early in your career?" — the questions you’ve been dying to ask but never knew who to turn to 👀In this episode, we did something a little different: we compiled your DMs and comments, and broke them down from both an employee’s perspective and an employer’s perspective — so you can finally hear the answers from both sides of the table.

Whether you're stuck at work, scared to speak up, or just want to understand how your boss actually thinks, this one's for you.

Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:

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Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466

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So...Why Is It SO HARD To Make Friends After Graduation? 😩Back in uni, it felt like making friends was effortless — whether it was through group projects, late-night mamak sessions, or random club events. But after graduating… it’s a totally different game. Suddenly, you’re busy with work, everyone’s on different schedules, and the chances to meet new people? Almost nonexistent 😔In this episode of Figuring It Out, we talk about the struggle of forming new friendships in your 20s, why it feels so much harder now, and how to rebuild your social life one small step at a time ❤️------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sippin.lemonade/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/figuringit_out.podApple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqUe15hCR2LZpD5t75?si=441bbb9a9b074976Special thanks to: 🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome🪵 Acoustic Wall Panel by Sleek: https://tinyurl.com/sleekpanel🎨 Design by Atap: https://finlit.my/atapco

So…My Friend Thought I Was Ghosting Her 😞💬

When I started working full-time, I thought I could handle it all — career, social life, love life… easy, right? But I quickly realised how hard it actually is to make time for people you care about 😩. Schedules clash, plans fall through, and suddenly your closest friends feel like strangers. It even starts to strain romantic relationships — not because the love fades, but because time does.

In this episode, we’re talking all about maintaining your relationships as a working adult — how to stay close, show up, and communicate better when life gets busy 💛

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Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰!

Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!

Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sippin.lemonade/

Follow my boss and his accounts at:

Peter's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peter.yong_mrmoney

MrMoneyTv's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrmoneytv

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/figuringit_out.pod

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqUe15hCR2LZpD5t75?si=441bbb9a9b074976Special thanks to:

🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome

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So...I Finally Understand Why So Many People End Up in Debt 💸I used to think, “Debt? That’s something you choose to get into.” But after hearing stories and breaking down the habits that lead to it... I finally get it. It’s not just about spending recklessly — it’s about how easy it is to fall into the trap without even realising it 😶‍🌫️.With credit cards, BNPL, and EPP plans everywhere, money feels less real. And before you know it, you’re not just overspending — you’re normalising being in debt.In this episode, we unpack the rise of debt in our generation and how these “convenient” tools could be the reason we’re losing control. Plus, we share practical tips on how to manage your finances before things spiral.Tune in to learn how to avoid falling into the debt trap!Follow my boss and his accounts at:Peter's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peter.yong_mrmoneyMrMoneyTv's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrmoneytv---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:Melody’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sippin.lemonade/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/figuringit_out.podApple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqUe15hCR2LZpD5t75?si=441bbb9a9b074976Special thanks to: 🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome🪵 Acoustic Wall Panel by Sleek: https://tinyurl.com/sleekpanel🎨 Design by Atap: https://finlit.my/atapco

So... I Almost Blew My Entire First Paycheck 😵‍💸

If you're a fresh grad who just started working, you probably know the rush of seeing your very first paycheck come in 💸. I was so excited, that I didn’t even realise how quickly I was spending it…but between spontaneous splurges, weekend plans, and treating myself a little too much… I didn’t realise how fast it was all disappearing 😮‍💨.

It hit me hard by the end of the month — and that’s when I knew I needed a system. A paycheck routine.

In this episode of Figuring It Out, Peter and I talk about how to build money habits that actually stick, how your lifestyle and spending should go hand-in-hand, and why budgeting isn’t just about saving, it’s about being intentional 🧠💸.

Tune in to learn how to make the most of your money without feeling like you’re depriving yourself!

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Hosted by Melody, this podcast discusses anything and everything related to adulthood —the highs, lows, messy parts, and fun parts. Ultimately, it is a place for Gen Zers to learn, grow, and make fewer mistakes as they navigate adulthood 🥰! 

Don't forget to tune into Figuring It Out's and remember that at the end of the day, we're all just figuring it out 🫶!

Follow my accounts and FIO’s accounts on:
Melody’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sippin.lemonade/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/figuringit_out.pod

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/figuring-it-out/id1799922466

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WKPQqUe15hCR2LZpD5t75?si=441bbb9a9b074976
Special thanks to: 

🛋️ Furnitures by MAJUHOME Concept: https://finlit.my/majuhome

🪵 Acoustic Wall Panel by Sleek: https://tinyurl.com/sleekpanel

🎨 Design by Atap: https://finlit.my/atapco